That besfriend happens to be also your first childhood friend which developed into a playmate and soon a bestfriend (at childhood) and is still your besfriend until now.
Has all those fun kiddie memories and everything attached to it with ya.
You've seen each other naked. Taught her how to masturbate. First kissed intimately out of curiousity. Does take a bath naked (with erections) with you once in a while for fun. She isn't jealous with you having a girlfriend now. She's still single and a virgin though. And ya, slept together once in a while since kids until now (BUT NOTHING HAPPENED! Errr...just the occassional groping and wet kissing on the neck for naughty fun but really no foreplay).
AS YOU BEING his GF, would you not get insecure and jealous about this bestfriend of his??
2007-07-04 04:13:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh I forgot to mention that the "boyfriend" that the main question with the yellow highlight refers to is a macho, hot, rich (NOT SUPER RICH), handsome, socialite, with a killer Dodge Viper. Pretty much is the male counter part of the girl bestfriend that is described above.
NOTE: don't forget...you're position is the Girl Friend of the macho, hot, rich (NOT SUPER RICH), handsome, socialite, with a killer Dodge Viper guy stated above.
The girl bestfriend of your boyfriend doesn't see this as a big issue and doesn't think that by all the intimate contact that they have shared is anywhere near 'disrespecting'.
The girl bestriend of your boyfriend, even if still a virgin, is sexually active nd already felt what an orgasm is due to masturbation and playing by herself (although sometimes your boyfriend watches or listens to her while doing this). And she already had 3 past boyfriends that she broke up with because their intentions were just to get in her pants.
2007-07-04 04:15:00 · update #1
(1) Your question sounds totally bogus. I can tell you're making it up.
(2) "Friends", even "best friends", don't do those things.
(3) If in the unlikely event that this situation would occur, it would not be the case the the girlfriend is insecure; it would be that the boyfriend is a disrespectful, perverted individual that doesn't know the proper way to act in a relationship.
(I think you've watched movies like "Cruel Intentions" too many times.)
2007-07-04 04:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by abbyful 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would be pissed... not at him having a female attractive bestfreind, or the past history he and that bestfriend share, but the fact that the intimacy continues with baths and him watching and listening to her masturbate... that IS CHEATING.. whether he touched the bestfriend since getting together with his girlfriend or not, i would still feel betrayed and consider him a cheater... if you like this bestfriend so much, just be honest and leave your girlfriend and be with your bestfreind... there's no reason to hurt your girlfriend by cheating on her... only losers cheat!!
2007-07-04 04:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if she is doing this, it means that she likes to get all of the attention, so you need to go to her and ask her why she does that to you, but if she gets mad or doesn't answer the questions it means that since you are getting all the guys she is jealous and is trying to make you feel bad because she is jealous of you.and if she keeps doing this then just stop being friends with her. but about the flirting thing, don't just stand there and let her do it, flirt with him, make him want you but if you are scared then talk to him on the side , get closer to him in other ways.
2016-05-18 00:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmm of course it would not be OK. In fact i would let my "rich, handome boyfriend" be "playful friends" with his girl "best friend". and just get the heck out of their sick lives.
by the way... that girl best friend is either a slut or an undercover slut.
2007-07-04 04:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by leoncita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is totally insane...
i can't imagine that best friends can go up to that stage???
i think this can be a really serious matter to me if i was the "GF"
2007-07-04 04:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Cyanide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confusing question but here goes. if my boyfriend had a drop dead gorgeous best friend i wouldn't mind as long as i could have a tall dark to die for best friend. whats good for the goose!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-04 04:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he listen to her masturbate i would be pissed off if my girl was doing that i don't know if your with him for security reason then stick with it but if not i would tell him how you feel because that not cool buddy!!!
2007-07-04 04:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by thesource2007<<<my psn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an obvious answer.
Who wouldnt be pissed?
Or insecure about it.
2007-07-04 04:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by vip_24_37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly? i would be jealous and pissed off , that is not very acceptable for me i wish it was but it's not i would leave my bf to that great freind of his so he could have more time listening to her satisfying herself!!!!
2007-07-04 04:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a bath together AND you had an erection.
God you sound like a pervert.
2007-07-04 04:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋