how can i get pregnant without my partner knowing?

Question

hello i have come off the pill because i want to get pregnant but my fiance uses condoms,I really do want a child and know deep down he does too,I tried to pierce the condom but it didnt work?

yeah yeah alright i no its selfish but we have been together for 3 yrs n have our own home,but he is really old fashioned and hes scared he does want them but i am ready now

can i just say i came on here for acvice not abused,i never said i wasnt being selfish because i no it is,we have disscussed it and he said if it happened he would be fine with it and it would be my choice what to do!

yeah i no see now that is advice i needed!thankyou i truly believe though that if we had a baby we would be happy and i no he would never leave me because i no he wants children I just dont no what to do.we are both still young 19 and 23 but why do i feel its the right time and he doesnt?

and i no its isnt easy having a baby because my step mum had my brother 2 and a halh yrs ago and she has post natal depression so i was practically mum to him so i no its no bed of roses

yes he was and i have been trying for the last 3 yrs for him to stop evan when i didnt want to get pregnant,because i was clumsy with my pill!i am going back on the pill now though

yes he was and i have been trying for the last 3 yrs for him to stop evan when i didnt want to get pregnant,because i was clumsy with my pill!i am going back on the pill now though,but evan when i wasnt clumsy he still had to wear one why?i dont no

Answer 1

you need to talk to him about how you are feeling. hopefully he will come around to your way of thinking, if not you will have to wait i guess.

question - was he using condoms when you were on the Pill? if so why? most men hate them. if he didn't let him think you have gone back on the pill!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Have you seen what you have wrote , you say you have been trying for 3 yrs but yet you say you have been with your partner 3 yrs ,so basically YOU have been trying from day one that you met him , this is not called wanting a baby its called trying to TRAP your partner wake up my dear having a baby don't mean he will stay with you , what do you think he will do when he finds out thay your putting holes in the condoms do you think he will be happy i think NOT , why do you think he is wearing them hes not ready for a child yet and what gives you the right to give him what hes not ready for , you will only end up getting hurt and by the sounds of what you are doing you will deserve every bit of it very childish.

Dont use talk to each other , talk about this and when hes ready and not just you ,

Answer 4

First off have you talked to him about it? I know when my partner asked me i wasn't sure but after a time that changed.

Secondly is your decision mostly about your want for a baby? if so then it's not a good idea, a baby is a very demanding stage in life and you will have no 'Me' time for years to come (partner has a 7 yr old from a previous and he is still a full time occupation)

Third there is the moral issue of lying to someone you (i hope) love.

fourth perhaps your partner does not feel secure in your relationship? if not and you split then you have burdened him with a legally binding finical responsibility he never wanted.

Answer 5

Hiya,

I understand your yearning for a child. I would sit him down and explain to him how much having a family means to you and maybe you can agree that say in 6 months time you will try. You could save a bit of money to help you when the baby is born.
Alternatively I suppose you could tell him you have developed an allergy to condoms.
You could put an erosive lubricant inside you before you have sex.
Learn to put the condom on with your mouth and bite the end of it therefore putting a hole in it.
Thats all I can think of hunni.
Good luck and all the best.

Answer 6

i know it can be a scary conversation to have but you really need to sit down together and talk. he says if it happens he'd be happy yet he's still using condoms.
if he found out you were trying to get pregnant without his consent i'm sure there would be no trust left.
explain to him that this is what you really want and give him the reasons why. if he says no then ask him why not and really listen to his opinion.
this is a very difficult and sensitve area, remember he's entitled to know if you're trying to make him a dad.
you are still young so try to be patient and understanding. he might just be scared of the huge responsibility that comes with a child.
hope things work out for you x

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I understand you say you don't want abuse, but this is quite a sensitive and life changing issue!
You and your boyfriend sound like you have a strong, mature and committed relationship. However, if he discovers what you are trying to do, his trust will be broken, he will feel violated, and you may be left holding the baby.....literally.
I understand, sweetheart, that you are desperate for a baby, but please consider you partner for a minute. He is not opposed to having children. Have you really discussed his fears in depth? You should sit with him, and explain how you are feeling. Tell him how strongly you feel about wanting a baby now. You can both talk about it rationally, and like adults.
You risk losing your partner and your home if you continue doing what you're doing. Just ask yourself, is it worth throwing all that away for the sake of having a baby now? Your partner wants children, and relationships involve a lot of compromise. I think with proper communication you and your partner will make great parents when the time is right. But for now, consider him too.
I hope things work out for the best for you sweetheart, but please don't be hasty. You have too much to lose still.
xxxxxxxxx

Answer 9

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Answer 10

i know its not easy but it would be best to wait until the time is right for you both. I would love to have another baby, I've been with my partner for 4 years, we both have children from past relationships but he wants to be more secure in his work and our home life before we go ahead and create another mouth to feed. Its something we want to do together!.. trying and having fun.. going out and buying a test kit together.. planning and buying the cot and pram and then going into the hospital. having a baby is a wonderful and beautiful time of any woman's life but it makes it all the better to have someone to share it all with... first words.. first steps

good luck

Answer 11

if your having unprotected sex, then it shouldnt come as much of a surprise, if a female did turn up pregnant. However that doesn't mean its okay and morally right to intentionally impregnate yourself, without at least discussing with your partner.