ok so iv been talking to this one kid, he is going into the 11th grade, im going into the 9th.we were talking, and he said he wanted to 'hook up'. i didn't rly know what it meant, but i assumed it meant like you know, date, make out. etc. . but then he wanted to know where, so i was like idk. then he said 'well i don't think you would want me to finger you in the public' and i was just like speachless. i do not want to do that, i am SO not ready for any of that,. he also wanted to like eat me out. no way jose. how do i like tell him off. but not be rude. hes already had sex iv barely been to second baseee.
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2007-07-04 00:23:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You go and tell him no. Be firm and no matter what he tells you, stick with your NO. Don't bother with any excuses, trust me, i'm also 14 and a guy that asks you to have sex with him while you're not ready is not worth dating. If he starts getting aggressive tell him to back off and go away. Don't feel bad, there are plenty of better guys out there that's worth your attention. Good luck!
2007-07-04 00:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~One Of A Kind~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Such an asshole! I would just tell him you're not that kind and certainly not ready. He will probably be very mean to you (that's the ego talking) but just imagine getting an STD from him... Just stay away, that guy's a serious user and a loser. I really respect you for having enough respect for yourself (and the common sense, too). Good luck!
2007-07-04 10:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Lady G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that that was not what was on your mind,actually u never thought of a thing like that when u said hooked up, or maybe that u have never heard anybody use the word before, so this is what u actually thought and tell him truthfully. then if he gets mad at u, thats it,u can't help it.
2007-07-04 07:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by pye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill gurliee ! , ahah xD . try to tell him politly that your not ready for that $hit , your only ****** 14 yrs oldd . Same here, im your agee :P But ., if he dont listen tell him to back the f*ck off ! or call the police ! that can helpp , :) Well , thats all i can say . ehe . Good luck missieeee ! :P
2007-07-04 07:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by Allie ツ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol tell him you like somone a lot already and you want to stay commited to just one guy!
2007-07-04 07:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you're not into that kind of stuff. that's what i do. and that's how i get them off my back.
2007-07-04 13:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him No. and be firm.
2007-07-04 12:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋