Why is it that some women really slate others for having their breasts enlarged? I've heard women saying nasty comments about fake breasts when they have probably never even seen or felt a pair! Is it purely jealousy or insecurity about their own bodies?
2007-07-03 22:45:01 · 18 answers · asked by Scorps 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
probably jealousy. It's a free world, people should be able to decide without criticism what changes they feel they want/have to make to their own body. Both look good
2007-07-03 22:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Because those who get them enlarged feel they need to be bigger to either get a guy or to stop having people pick on them about their size. It is a 100% vanity/self esteem issue.
I don't berate women for getting implants, but I do feel there are better things women could be putting that money to. I do try to convince people wanting to go bigger than a full C cup to rethink their decision, as sizes bigger than a C are usually asking for back pain and other issues.
I was a natural J cup and now I am a C cup and I can tell you that big breasts aren't all that. You get treated like crap and you end up having health issues because of the size.
Also I know of many guys who hate the feel and look of implants and would rather the women to be 100% natural.
I don't think it is jealousy or insecurity. I think it is that some women feel that you shouldn't put foreign objects into your body in order to make you feel better about yourself or to try to get a guy's attention. If a guy doesn't look at you because of the size of your chest he is totally not worth the time.
2007-07-04 00:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it may be because of the steriotypical image that was portrayed years ago in the media that only slaggy women got their breast enlarged, because it only seemed to be page 3 girls and the like who got the attention because of it.
Nowadays though, it can be for self esteem or medical purposes (as it can be for women getting their breasts reduced), but perhaps the same old ideas are stuck in many womens heads and they tar everyone with the same brush.
For the record, I'm 100% natural and would never dream of having the operation. A friend of mine felt her cousins after she'd had hers done (in a totally curious and none wierd way!), and she said it was like holding a knee! I like the idea of fake boobs because they are apparently pert constantly and you can wear nice little tops without a 'boulder-holder', but on the other hand I'd be too nervous about the health implications.
2007-07-04 00:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason some get concerned is because of the fact that they think that the other ones should be happy with their natural size. And others are concerned because of the possible problems that can occur from having that kind of surgery.
I'm also sure that for yet others it could have to do with insecurity about their own bodies.
Doesn't make it right to criticize the others for doing it though.
2007-07-03 22:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by sokokl 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some women just prefer natural breasts, I really like my small ones and would never consider having them enlarged, however I might have other plastic surgery. My friend had her breasts enlarged and since then she has grown bigger and bigger and now looks fat all over. Large breasts are also ageing when you are over 60.
2007-07-03 22:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I do believe it's jealousy and insecurity. Women are always checking out their competition and seeing how they measure up. However, there are some women who just don't like the idea of breast implants.
2007-07-04 01:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ssshhhhhhhh! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2017-03-01 06:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just seems like cheating. i was blessed naturally, but there are other things i was saddled with, ( the big breast came with large ***) but to have a decent body with breast accordingly appropriate, it seems a waste to get them bigger. they make ppl look heavier than they are and focus attention when it is not wanted. i know a real estate agent who had trouble showing property b/c guys thought she was selling something other than houses. ultimately she had to cover up and dress more matronly at work, something she did not have to do as a normal breasted woman.
2007-07-03 23:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by laughingtxlady 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yup they're are jealous and insecure. I know quite a few people who have gotten implants and yes a lot of people complain about it but in the end if it makes the person who got the enlargement happy and feel better who cares what anyone else thinks?
One of my friends neighbors got a boob job and this woman decided to throw a huge Halloween party themed bitches and hoes and my friend was complaining the only reason she was having the party was to show them off. I told her if I paid that much for mine I'd be showing mine off too!
2007-07-03 22:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Rhyannonn C 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
I envy people who have reductions, as i've been refused one on the NHS.
I often wonder why people want larger ones but would never make judgements on them.
apart from Lolo Ferrari. They really were gross.
2007-07-04 00:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by ♀SaintsRLFC♀ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋