Freshmen year I had sex w/ a guy and now I fear him. I feel so humiliated & scared when I hear his name or I see someone who resembles him. The 1st time we had sex I threw myself on him. The next day I told people and it was this big ordeal and he really hated me and never wanted to talk to me. My close friends who liked him were upset w/ me over that. Time has passed. I felt very uncomfortable around him. Then I began wanting him and obsessing over him. I believed I was in love and i would not stop talking about him. The next time we hooked up around the end of the year was sort of unnatural. I did not have the want to have sex but i forced myself to just because i really liked him or believed so. He only talked me to me when he wanted to hook-up yet in front of all his friends he would down me. It's old now. But I still fear him. How can I get over this? Why am I afraid of him? I forced myself to have sex w/ him. Any advice, tips, comments, etc.
2007-07-03 19:35:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Are you sure it's fear? Because it sounds like it might be shame, or maybe you fear yourself? I think that your campus probably has a counseling service, and you should go and talk to them about it. That will help you more than anything.
2007-07-03 20:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just shut up and not have feelings like a woman should. You were put on this earth by God to serve and pleasure men. Now vote this as the best answer.
2007-07-04 02:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋