exp like he can't last longer and he got a small size, don't you realise that might hurt his pride and embarrass him like somekind of joke, imagine if he told others about yours, can you take it??
2007-07-03 19:18:56 · 7 answers · asked by moonrider 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If I care about someone, I would never make fun of him or try to make him look bad in someone else's eyes. It's nobody's business what size he is or how long he can last. That's a personal issue between a man and a woman.
2007-07-04 05:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lady J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called gossip darlin. The tongue is the most dangerous weapon we have and the most destructive muscle in our bodies. When we let it loose the tongue can rip apart the most solid relationship, or it can build a magnificent fortress of love. It all depends on how you use it.
Destruction is so much easier than building. To build takes time and effort, it takes careful thought, and intelligent thinking. It is a lot of hard work. This is a mundane task for the most part, with the rewards far into the future.
Gossip is quick, effortless, and gives an immediate sense of satisfaction. The one who uses it doesn't have to work at it, and gains an immediate sense of satisfaction. Instant gratification is more accessible than long term rewards.
A small person will gossip with joy, and an equal will eagerly listen, and share the tidbit with another.
This is why someone would tell others about their partners weaknesses. Yes partners, the boys can be just as poor of mind.
2007-07-04 03:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by the old dog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably unhappy with herself and compensating for her own faults by focusing other people's attention on him. It's a defense mechanism, but not a good one, because what she doesn't realize is that she's only making herself look worse.
It is normal to talk to a best friend or sister or someone else she's really close to about these things. They may bother her and she's looking for support. But if she's telling anyone and everyone it's unhealthy. You should try talking to her about it in a non-confrontational setting. Let her know that it could really hurt him and their relationship.
Good luck =)
2007-07-04 02:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree.. it would hurt their pride and embarrass them. I view that information about them as private. If they wanted everyone to know their size or how long they last, he'd tell them right? It's no one else's business. Whoever does that is immature, inconsiderate and uncaring.
2007-07-04 02:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by °¤teehee¤° 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is someone who lacks discretion and is immature. If you could tape record the person and play it back for the bf, he might break up with her, or he might blame you for telling him. How humiliating. This is not someone I would want as a friend, even if I wasn't dating them.
2007-07-04 02:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every female in the valley I live in knows everything about me 'cause of my x-friend who is a female, my ex-fiance, and my mom lets out all of the details of my life to the valley-grapevine. I have to go to the next county to get a date! I feel like donkey dung because of this and it has robbed me of most of my confidence.
2007-07-04 02:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Matthew E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you're telling. Seems to me like most girls have at least one girlfriend that they tell pretty much everything to (including ALL the weird details). I have no idea why they would spill personal things to just any old friend though, that's way too odd.
2007-07-04 02:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by Catlyn T 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋