Are there any adults who were 'molested' as kids by a good looking adult you knew, and it's a fond memory?

Question

When I was 12 or 13,and started freeing willy, I fantasized about hot adults, not just kids my age. I often think I'd have liked it if certain ones had tried it. Of course being forced by someone you didn't like would be horrible.
Now i'm not at all attracted to minors, so don't jump to conclusions, but I'm just wondering if some who had a pleasant encounter don't see themselves as a "victim" of abuse???

Answer 1

i was 16 and one of my moms coworkers was about 30 took me home and seduced me it was fantastic since then I've always liked older women matter of fact my first wife was 6 years my Senior

Answer 2

Out of all the kids who have been molested and violated sexually, there are sure to be some- (not many, but some) who's experience was not physically objectable...however, we're talking about kids here, and these kids do not always have the emotional or psychological clarity to understand or process these feelings...even adults would have a hard time with that. Just because a kid might feel physical pleasure does not mean they haven't been violated or abused. In fact, feelings of physical pleasure will only serve to compound the confusion and enormity of the situation and make it that much more difficult for them to sort through, process, and heal. These are kids most at risk of growing up and becoming molestors themselves. They need intensive professional treatment, and many of them don't receive any until serious damage (sometimes permanent damage) has been done to their psyche. To not see oneself as a victim of abuse (who's been abused) does NOT mean that damage has not been done...quite the opposite is true, and it is a red flag that needs to be seriously addressed...immediately!