I can't stop feeling homesick, even though I am at 'home' right now. But this isn't where I feel at home. I believe that my real home is in Scotland, where my Dad lived before moving to Oz. I've been there several times and I miss it so much. I feel so depressed and alone living in this tiny country town and want to move to the UK when I finish school. I am so sure about this, but don't want to hurt my Dad. I am in my final year of school, but am finding it difficult to concentrate on my work because I feel so alone. I am definately going to go back to the UK next year for a gap year before university, but how can I tell my dad I want to go to university in the UK? I just feel that there is nothing for me in Australia.
2007-07-03 14:35:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Studying Abroad
I know exactly how you feel. I went through it when I was ten and I did know at that time
* why we moved and
* that going back was not possible due to major political changes, a.k.a. a just started civil war.
I just had the advantage that I could talk with my siblings who were homesick as well.
I agree with Pengy: Speak with your dad. In case there is a mom or a step mom, you might want to talk with her as well.
If you still have relatives or friends in Scotland talk about visiting them. Talk about how happy you were in Scotland and that at the moment you feel lost in Australia. Talk about the differences between Scotland and Australia that make you feel alone in a tiny country town in Australia but would give you a homey feeling in Scotland. Talk about large distances versus small. Talk about the different climate. Talk about the different language. Talk about everything that annoys you in Australia and why the Scottish version is better suited for you.
And don't forget to ask what might have changed since you left Scotland. And ask why your dad moved to Australia. This will show him that you are not necessarily second guessing his decision but that YOU are not happy where you are and would like to find the country where you would be happy; and you just think that country would be Scotland.
Additionally you might want to start email communication with people you know in Scotland or send regular mail and ask them about possibilities to study in Scotland. What are the requirements? Will you need a study visa? What is the typical student housing there? ...
2007-07-09 12:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by ab1609 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak with your dad, yes as a dad I know often times our immediate reaction is no Why? Because we worry about our children, let us stew on it for a day or two that is how we are and unfortunately cannot change that. In time reason does actually hit us the fear of the safety of our child does not diminish but at some point reality does enter our conscience IF you are a daughter it is even harder. Dad's tend to make immediate decisions, and then think about them and are very protective, sorry just the way we are. Again speak with him, and if it not what you want to hear give it a day or two to sink in, good advice is to have mom on your side she can speak with him also but as I said give it some time we fathers do not like being pushed but over time do change our feelings and thoughts. Best of luck to you
2007-07-03 21:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way I understand what you are saying.
When I was younger I lived in a different state. I really didn't miss living there when I moved to my home now. But recently I have really been questioning myself as to what I would be like if my family hadn't moved. I don't even know what it is that i miss there. It just seems like my home. Lately I have felt like there is a part of me that isn't here, it belongs there.
If you are wondering what you should tell your dad, I think he would probably understand. He might even be interested in moving with you, I would clearly explain your reason in wanting to move there & tell him that you love him & you would really appriciate his support & you feel this is the best decision for you.
2007-07-03 21:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUst try to make the best of your time....Dont let anything get you down, especially since its ur last year!! That would suck to fail your last year.... Dont get the blues, go for walks, try to meet new people that amy change the way you feel around.. Hope this helps! Sorry you feel so homesick.
-peace
2007-07-03 21:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by *ich_liebe_dich* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u crazy?????????????
2007-07-11 07:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by jhorena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋