Isn't it bogus?
2007-07-03 13:09:58 · 10 answers · asked by mallmaniac1996 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your best friend likes your boyfriend, shes not a friend at all. If you dump him, she would try to get him and forget about you. I was in the same situation, and it turns out the only reason my friend liked him is because she wanted to try and make him like her to make me unhappy. Maybe your friend has had a crush on him all along and you should just let her have her little crush. If your boyfriend really likes you, he wont dump you for her. So what do you have to worry about? She wont get him anyway.
Talk to your friend
-Kelly
2007-07-03 13:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the question is: does your bf like her back? If so then the solution might be to dump him, but only if he is interested in pursuing her. If he isn't sure then just give him some time... don't completely break up but just give him a few days to decide what he wants to do with his love life. If your friend is unwilling to back off of the bf while you are dating then she might not be the best friend to have, because best friends are supposed to support you and what you do and pursuing your bf means that she doesn't really care about your feelings or is ultimately more concerned with her own.
2007-07-03 20:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that she doesn't know he is your boyfriend?
If she doesn't, then tell her about it. If she is really your bset friend, she will stop.
If she knows that he is your boyfriend and she persists, then you just have to concretize your relationship with your bf.
She should then stop. And demand from your boyfriend that he should not behave like he is encouraging your bestfriend, that you are becoming jealous. And if he really loves you, he will like the fact that you are jealous, and doing things to keep the relationship good. If he entertains your bestfriend's moves, then dump him, even if you said you like him too much. Because he must work as much to keep your relationship strong. What good is a one-way relationship anyway?
2007-07-03 20:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why would anyone suggest "dump him" after all you stated that it is your Bestfriend that likes your Boyfriend. Wow some bestfriend. If anything you need to cut her loose, if in fact she's trying to Mack on your b/f. If she does not respect you enough to know that your bestfriends guy is off limits then she is not a friend.
2007-07-03 20:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Betty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best friend that she needs to smarten up and respect you. She shouldn't be interfering with your relationship. It sounds like she might be trouble in the future. make your boy friend aware of the situation but dont break up with him because of her. You friend might just be jealous.
2007-07-03 20:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is the thing ok if ypor going out with a guy girls will like him to but if he picked you your safe and as for your bestfriend liking him well tell her to back off ok yur going to have that problem all your life but just remember he wants to be with you right he choose you just dont mess it up ok.
2007-07-03 20:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by joker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it definetly needs to be addressed not to him but to her she is not being a best friend at all. She should like him in no other way than strickly being friends
2007-07-03 20:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by kindra1988 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that stinks, just deal wit it. unless she like talks bout him all the time, then tell her you wood like 4 her to stop. stay wit him and try not to pick sides. bye
2007-07-03 20:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Hanabanana<3!? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dONT DUMP HIM!!! dont do the same mastike i did!!! just talk to her and tell her that their is other guys out there and sooner or later she will get over him!
2007-07-03 20:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to back off shes jelouse of u and him and wants him so u are lonley tell her to back off and if she doesnt then stop being her freind
2007-07-03 20:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by daven_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋