i never really have visitors that often i love the place really tidy, I dont, make friends very easy really, I wish i thought more of myslef as well. I have always had low self esteem and that has affected my confidance but its really hard to be positve about myself when i have been told negative crap all my life by my parents i wasent wanted i am no good. crap at things its really hard to change things. do you think it is
2007-07-03 11:38:24 · 10 answers · asked by hairy armpits 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it is hard. but you must change it, because you have to live.
some things done by our parents are hard to explain. those things we should learn how to forget. OK not to forget, but to stop thinking why. we have to go forward. our parents are not perfect, so don't take what they said for an absolute truth.
it is hard to forget all that, but you have no option. be brave.
2007-07-03 11:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by veceras 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Snap into focus. it sounds like you are doing really well. You are strong because you have your own place and you know how you like it and keep it that way. Change your social connections by joining groups that have similar interests to your own. Most Sunday papers have sections of local clubs. Everything from Knitting to motorcycle. Find something that you relate to and are good at. You will find a built in support group and a new bunch of GOOD friends that won't throw negative ideas at you. Gradually your self esteem will improve and so will your social life.
Also... Try your local Library. Library's are not just for books any more. They have guest lecturers and authors reading their books etc. They also have groups that meet on various subjects that might interest you. YOU have to take the first steps. Eventually others will help you start running with your life and enjoying it more than you think is possible right now. Give it a try.
2007-07-03 11:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Traveler 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to get over the crap that ur parents told u. i know cuz my parents always made me feel ugly and now im begining to see that that was never true and my boyfriend is amazed at the fact that i believed them. u need to become more comfortable with yourself and get out there and make friends. little by little u will loose ur self esteem issues and be a more cheerful person and make tons of friends
2007-07-03 11:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by janie rey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry theres loads of ways to make new friends these days. join a club or do a course even talk to people in your area online. i was in the same boat as you but it all works out in the end. keep ur chin up x
2007-07-03 11:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have no friends ? or visits ? for Gods Sake get a grip. It seems 2 me that your whole life is negative. Change it around and stop self wollowing.
I'm sure you are a nice but ugly person, get over it.
Millions have done it so you could be the next
2007-07-03 11:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Big H 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
someone telling you isn't going to help, not if you're anything like me anyway.
you need someone who'll prove it by making you part of their life.
you do have some friends so spend time with them and just try and get out and hopefully you'll meet someone.
2007-07-03 11:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by MrFlibble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-03 11:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not sure what your asking but you are special.
2007-07-03 11:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by coan2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T GET SCARED, but therapy will help you overcome
these feelings.
2007-07-03 11:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wat?
2007-07-03 11:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋