i grew up fatherless & he was there!!! i think that's worse!!!
2007-07-03 09:13:23
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answered by Anonymous
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I think he'll be fine. If anything I think it will make him more respectful towards women.
I think you should allow and encourage him to be a "man" and do the things that come naturally to him. Where I think problems occur is when single moms don't allow their boys to be boys. But I think a mom can be an excellent teacher of boys. Do boys need men in their lives,, sure. If you have an uncle or brother that is a good example to follow. Just let the kid spend some time with them. That's better then guys you may date. Guys who may leave. Look at the example that sets. You'll be fine, show him how to be a good man. Let him be proud of who he is. And encourage him to be a respectful strong person.
2007-07-03 16:20:53
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answered by Anonymous
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You get most of the same types of people as when boys grow up with a father present. Some go to college and get jobs and work for a living, some turn to crime, some just scrape by, some become ax murderers, drug dealers, or democrats. Growing up without a father present doesn't automatically mean that the kid will turn out rotten.
2007-07-03 16:15:55
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answered by Ralfcoder 7
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Very little. There was a whole generation that grew up without a father after the second world war. We all just got on with life. Teachers, doctors, relatives - all act as surrogate role models, so the boy doesn't get hurt in any way by the experience.
2007-07-03 16:55:00
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answered by Anonymous
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My boyfriend's father left him when he was around 7, I think and he is perfectly fine. He is probably a genius, very mature, caring, respectful, etc. Since he knows what it is like to not have a father around while growing up, it'll make him a better father by wanting to be there for his kids and watching them grow up. I know its a bad thing for a boy not to have a father figure, but as long as they have a strong mother who loves and cares for them and does all they can, then the boy will grow up just fine and be normal.
2007-07-03 18:03:59
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answered by First L 5
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various things: not having a father as a role model most males will seek that void in the uncles or older patriarchs of the family. Some will seek that void in the streets with the men of the community be either good or bad influence (street thugs or big brother/big sister organizations.) Some will run away from home and become very independent at a very young age. Some will seek to fill that void with gangs. Some will seek to fill that void with homosexuality. Some will seek to fill that void with street prostitution.
Mind you some of these things can still happen with the father in the house, that doesn't spend QUALITY time with the child.
2007-07-03 16:14:24
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answered by Anonymous
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The last time my son had contact (or child support), with his father was at 17 months of age, and he turned out great. It is a myth that a child needs a father to become an emotionally healthy adult. I have lots of male friends who were fabulous role models.
2007-07-03 16:15:10
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answered by boogeywoogy 7
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I have a friend who raised twin boys from day one without fathers. The boys latched on to good men in their lives, me included and both turned out great. I remember a little girl who seemed more desperate to find a dad.
2007-07-03 16:56:57
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answered by GeoffB 6
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My self and my two brothers grew up without our father. I can tell you this, my mother kept ALL of us involved. We traveled a lot and we were always in different programs to keep us busy. Remember this idle time is dvils time. The things he is involved in and happy he's going to be alright. Both of my brothers are in school and 1 is about to graduate this fall. Pray also.
2007-07-03 16:15:02
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answered by badgrl141 1
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If boys don't have a strong male role model they learn to be men from women. Women don't know how to be men. So the boy struggles with what the world needs from its men and what he has been taught.
We are losing toughness, mental and physical, character,
work ethic and much more.
2007-07-03 16:16:26
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answered by easyericlife 4
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i saw on a NFL Network Specail 41.4% of nfl players are fatherless.So that means fatherless kids like me are gonna end up in the nfl hahaha
2007-07-03 23:37:53
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answered by the greatest 3
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