I am 15 years old and i have had sex with my boyfriend I stopped having my period for about 3 months I took a pregnancy test and it came back negative...... Am I pregnant? or not? Y have I missed my period for 3 months? could it because I am over weight? If i go to the docter and i tell him that I havent had my period for 3 months will he tell my mom that I have had sex before? Can they tell if you have had sex or not? Does a loss period mean that i am pregnant?
2007-07-03 08:48:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Missing a period or two can sometimes be caused by stress or illness. But, if you have been having unprotected sex and no period for 3 months, then there is a real chance you are pregnant.
The tests can be wrong. My wife was pregnant with twins, but every test she took showed negative; both home tests and doctor's office tests. Only a sonogram at 4 months showed she had two babies in there.
You will need to discuss your sexual activity with your doctor. Yes, the doctor can tell that you've been having sex, your hymen is broken and probably mostly gone by now. The doctor is supposed to keep your secrets, but if you are pregnant, you're mom will know soon enough. It's better to discuss it now than wait for a fight later. You will need her help! Get her on your side as soon as you can.
2007-07-03 08:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by crgrier 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wow...15yrs.old and having to struggle with the stress of a possible pregnancy, (a real live child)... not to mention theother stresses of having an S.T.D many of which have no cure and can affect your future spouse and ability to have children.
No... missing three periods at your age does not mean you are pregnant. However, having sex does mean that you can get pregnant, condoms don't work all time and none of the time for S.T.Ds such as H.P.V (skin to skin method of infection) Stress can cause you to miss your period. Plus you are still so young that you might not be eating right or getting enough rest and therefore your body is still in a state of fluctuation. A visit to a doctor is a good idea as he can tell if you have an infection and he will not tell your Mom that you are having sex, unless you want him to tell her.
You are starting off on a path that could lead to a lot of pain, not just a broken heart. If you are sexually active and then get dumped it hurts real bad. You could also get pregnant and even if you choose to release your baby to an adoptive family, you will still feel sadness... Abortion doesn't "get rid" of the baby, it just makes you have a lot of memories you don't want and sometimes girls use alcohol or drugs or abusive relationships to suppress these memories or to punish themselves. So the best thing is to go see a doctor.. Also, tell your mother, you will not shock her. (unless she has been in a coma for a long time) Get her help and other help to practice "secondary virginity" that way you will have something really wonderful to give as a gift to the man who will eventually become your husband and father of your children.
If by chance you do become pregnant, take a deep breath and think about what would be best for your baby. Then go on line and find a Crisis Pregnancy Center near you.
2007-07-03 16:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by R. D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you sound pregnant. About checking to see if you had sex you have the net look up what a hymen is.
1) Unprotected sex
2) missed Periods
3) Pregnancy test aren't 100%
I was 4 months and was not showing and they had to take blood to give me a pt and it then came out positive urine was negative. justforlf@yahoo.com
Tell an adult! SO that your baby can be healthy! I'll adopt the child if necessary!
2007-07-03 15:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tricee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you using protection? Considering that you're 15, your period is probably still irregular. if the test came up negative, you're obviously not pregnant according to the test. If you were to go to the doctor, they usually keep things confidential. However, you are extremely too young to be having sex considering your body hasn't went through all of it's changes. If you are worried about getting pregnant, stop having sex. Because if you did end up pregnant, you couldn't hide it from your parents, and you're just way too young to even take on the responsibility of a child.
2007-07-03 15:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't mean your pregnant it more than likely means your experienceing irregular periods. You're probably Anovulatory (not ovulating). Being overwieght can have an effect on your menstual cycle but it's always best to get checked out by a doctor to rule out things like polycystic ovarian syndrome(PCOS) or other things. Many things can cause irregular periods but only a doctor can tell you for sure what's keeping yours away.
If you can't tell your mom than you need to call your local doctor or women's clinic and see if you can be seen in privacy. A lot of places will see you and help you out without informing your parents. I'd recommend you tell your mom but hey I was in your place one time and I know how hard it is to face your mom with that kind of news.
Good luck!
2007-07-03 16:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe, unless you are sick, and need parents consent to get help, the doctor can not tell your parents anything
When did you take the test?
If you took it the first months, and not it with the first pee
Test again, with the first pee
If still negative, tell your mom your not pregnant, but need to see the doctor, you have not got your period
Your mom will help\
If you test again, and its positive, tell your mother
She will help you
I did not have a period for three months, I thought it was over stress, I was sick
Good luck
2007-07-03 16:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
missed period is always a first sign of pregnancy but if you said that you took test and it came negative then you MIGHT not be pregnant it is very rare to get a false negative... there can be something wrong and you need to see a doctor asap to take a blood pregnancy test or to see whats going on with your period
2007-07-03 15:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by finallyamommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be that you are young and your body is still developiing and the sexual intercourse could be affecting your menstrual cycle. But on the same token, if you are having sex there IS always a chance that you could be pregnant. Legally doctors cannot tell your parents anything like that without your consent. You may also have a virus. You should most defenitely go to a doctor, your parents don't have to know, trust me on this one honey, I got preggers when I was 17 and went thru it okay?
2007-07-03 15:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnancy test are pretty reliable, but some do have false results. Missing a period does not always mean you are pregnant, but they will rule that out first. Your best bet is go to the doctor, and get a blood test, and you will know.
2007-07-03 15:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by heather b, on baby number 6.wow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, no....missed periods do not mean you're pregnant.
I'd say you're not pregnant based on the negative tests. The only way to know for sure if to go have a blood test done.
Yes, your missed periods could be because you're overweight, or stressed, or sick or any number of things.
I don't know about telling your mom.....you are underage, but I think unless abuse, he can't.
Certainly, he can tell if you've had sex...especially if you go in to see if you're pregnant.
Wow -- sounds like you need to re-evaluate your choices...you're not making good ones.
2007-07-03 15:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋