Please help! I just began seeing a psychotherapist for postpartum depression because I was continuously crying, becoming an alcoholic, and just could not get a good bond going with my darling, wonderful newborn. I'm not blaming my husband for the postpartum, but the lack of bonding I feel, truly is partially his fault. The only decisions I've been allowed to make concerning my baby are what she can wear so far. He even went so far as to not allow me to put a bow around her head when we went out because he said it looked uncomfortable and that I was wrong. I've worked with children since I was a teenager and have been a teacher in a preschool for 5 years, all ages. I also have a four year old son from a previous relationship. Regardless, he ignores any and all suggestions I offer and I really do make them suggestions, not demands. I feel completely out of control. I hate myself and my depression just makes it worse. I am the one who takes care of the kids most of the time. Help!
2007-07-03
07:18:29
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Camnkenzie
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Pregnancy & Parenting
➔ Newborn & Baby
I've always been a good mother and very in control of my life. I don't know how I let it get this far. I'd never hurt my children, but I DO get so angry at my husband that I want to lash out at him. The only reason I don't is because he might strike me back and I do not want my son to see "Mommy and daddy fighting" nor do I want to leave him just yet. I'm hoping this is not an abnormal situation and that we can work through this
2007-07-03
07:21:51 ·
update #1