i'm 16. i moved to one place and hated it until i made the best friends ive ever had. i moved away and i know it was a mistake. i just cant convince my mom to let me go back and be happy and graduate with my friends like i want to. ive always wanted to graduate with my best friend and if i dont move back then i cant. so what should i do? i feel depressed and i cant get over how much i miss them. and my mom doesnt care that i am hurting after 6 schools and alot of disapointment.
2007-07-03 03:24:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Smile and get on with your studies. I went to 13 different schools (we moved a lot, too). I even went from a junior high school in one district back to elementary school in another.
You have benefits from this that you won't realize for years - you probably make friends easily, aren't afraid of new surroundings or change, adapt well to stressful situations.
These will all serve you well in the future. There is always a bright side - take it from someone who's been where you are, times two :)
Focus on your studies. That's what you should do. Your mom is NOT moving to hurt you - she's doing what she has to do.
2007-07-03 03:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by pepper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First your Mom does care that your hurting, thats all she probabally hears from you and maybe she has put up walls to protect her own emotions. I moved many times when I was a kid too, I know its difficult, but your Mom is doing her best for you, so you try to do your best for her too. Make new friends again, and if your close enough to your old town, maybe you can visit on occasion.
My daughter had to move in her senior year, she hated it at the time, but guess what our new home, and neighborhood turned out to be where she met her husband, and they are very happy for 20 years now, If we had not moved she never would have met him. Life gives us what we are supposed to have, so look for the best where you are now. And quit blaming and doubting your Mom. She had good reasons for moving.
2007-07-03 03:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by patricia f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Some military kids move more than that. People come and go out of your life all the time. Get used to it. Just because you want to move, doesn't mean it's the best decision for your parents. Just make new friends.
2007-07-03 03:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive moved a bunch of times too, and i had friends i didnt want to leave. but theirs nothign you cant do except make new friends and keep in touch by aim and email and visit them every once in a while.
dont get depressed or caught up in it, thats what happened to my sister when she was 16 too, she got over it though and so will you
2007-07-03 03:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure why you moved so much. maybe its not that your mom doesn't care but she cant accomodate your request. Where will you live if you go back?
2007-07-03 03:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Animal Helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that.
your best friend is in (city) and you want to go back and graduate with her. chat with her via myspace or friendster or email.
2007-07-03 03:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anon omus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres not much u can do if your mom is so stubborn, so i suggest u get use to it
2007-07-03 03:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋