ok i recently got married so did my ex. My ex and i were still friends but not anymore. My ex got mad 2 weeks ok at me saying that they didn't want to be my friend anymore and pretty much said i wasn't a good friend. Mind you this was after i canceled a luncheon with them. This person is not really my ex just someone i use to deal with. We tried to be friends but it always ends up this way( us not speaking to each other for a few days) it's going on 3 weeks now! This person has a really good heart and i would like to be friends but its difficult now that we are both married! right now i'm feeling bad and i want to email or something but i don't know if that would be a good idea!
2007-07-03 03:14:39 · 10 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you do not have anything that ties you together like kids. I say let it go. You both have obviously moved on and sometimes it is better to leave the past in the past. Do you really want all that extra drama? It's not worth it. Good luck.
2007-07-03 03:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by IIIxKrazy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your wife know about these little "luncheons?" She's pretty cool if she lets those continue after you and she got married. Not me. I would demand that all interactions between you and her be conducted when I'm there or not at all.
Frankly, I don't think it's great for guys to have friends of the opposite sex. It's just the nature of the breed, but I think the chances of you ending up in bed together are high. Let him go.
2007-07-03 10:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Walk away, if they are a true friend then things will work out, but sometimes time is the best answer. Concentrate on your spouse and not on someone from your past.
2007-07-03 10:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by ellusionary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Email cannot hurt. If they do not want to continue the friendship there really is nothing that you can do. So try a phone call or email. You will never know until you try it. But forcing someone into something never works.
2007-07-03 10:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by princess m 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
move on... if they stop talking to you and don't want to resolve things then your ex isn't worth it. You are married now put your energy to that because your marriage is much more important.
2007-07-03 10:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by vinny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say, walk away. Spend your focus on your husband, and not your ex. Let your ex, spend his time on his wife and not you. I know its hard to hear, but I think thats what you need to do.
2007-07-03 10:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. 26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ahrd to eb freinds if uve been out with someone u used to love. itll never be the same as a true freindship
2007-07-03 10:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by GG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that it is time to end the relationship - you are married - you should send notes to your wife and take her out to lunch :)
2007-07-03 10:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Animal Helper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends..
2007-07-03 10:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on
2007-07-03 10:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋