worries me!
2007-07-03 03:00:29 · 11 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Join some social networking sites like myspace, facebook, etc. for a start
2007-07-03 03:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Trekky2k 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Join a group of some sort. Your local council, leisure centre, adult education centre, community hall, church all will have different groups going on. Get a job, youll meet loads of new people. Buy a dog, a walk in the park can be a surprising, yet often social hobby. Maybe find an online chat group near your area. Overall, be yourself. Act confident and you will feel confident, in turn drawing people to you. After all, who would be more approachable: the guy sat quietly on his own in the corner, looking sullen amd miserable or the guy stood in the middle of the room, smiling at people and starting conversations?
2007-07-03 10:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing would be to not focus on the friends part. You should find out what it is that catches your interest and pursue it. You should view this as a good thing. Most people have friends they don't really like to begin with. They are mostly friends from school that they have grown accustomed to. You have the opportunity to bring like minded individuals into your life and start your own circle of friends. Focus on yourself and involve yourself in activities that relate to you. i.e. book clubs, political parties, pool clubs,etc... Go to meetup.com and see what you like! Good luck!
2007-07-03 10:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by P M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me too hun. I used to have a social life before i got involved. Now the furthest i go is Tesco!! I know for a fact that this has contributed to depression and insecurity. Believe me, if you want to talk as friends then i'm all up for it.
2007-07-10 13:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,join a social club or start going to the pub.Play darts,snooker etc you will soon get friendly with people.Good Luck
2007-07-10 09:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since friends won't come to you, go out to meet people. Join volunteer groups, sports clubs, book clubs, gaming clubs, or even the gym. It takes time to cultivate friends; just develop your own interests and find people who share those interests.
2007-07-03 10:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Buttercup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't either but it was of my choosing. If it not what you want you are the one to change it. You have to find a place to meet people who share your beliefs or do the same things. What I mean gardening , art, writing or almost anything.
2007-07-11 00:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD QUESTION...Play video games. Keep using this site. Get a job. Make a few friends. Don't worry, be happy. Stay bright, and get drunk occasionally.
2007-07-10 19:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling. do you work? if not getting a job will help and you will make friends with people you work with. or go to college. i cant do either at the moment and im sick of staring at 4 walls all day long.
2007-07-03 10:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by * Mummy to 2 Girls * 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont have a job get one because you mite end up living on the streets. And couldnt you live with your mam or if you have any brothers or sisters live with them
2007-07-09 10:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋