How can i turn my best friend gay? I think he's on the verge so what are things I can try on him. I'm willing to do anything!!!!! I know somebody knows some ways that could help me so hit me up and help me out! Thanz a million!
2007-07-03 02:49:50 · 14 answers · asked by penn_state09 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As much as you want your best friend to be gay... let him find out on his own terms. If he is gay, you can help him with comming to terms with it... but if he happens to be straight, you should let him be. The whole idea of "turning" someone gay is selfish...
2007-07-03 03:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't turn someone. Trying will just mean you lose a friend.
If he's bi or gay he'll come out to you eventually, but if you force it you'll just lose a friend.
You can only make someone have gay sex with money and viagra, but you can't make someone become gay. You can use the body, but you can't change the mind.
Besides if you think you can turn people, then you're justifying those that say that we can change too.
You need to learn to respect other's sexual orientation, instead of forcing them to conform to your own. That's as wrong as any other type of homogenization.
2007-07-03 03:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Luis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is he about to come out? If he;s not gay already, the only thing that will make him try more is his own curiosity combined with alcohol or anything else
2007-07-03 03:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with most of the above.
If he is gay (or bi), he has to come out on his own terms and in his own time.
If you force the issue he could become very depressed because he wasn't ready to accept his feelings.
If he is straight then leave him alone.
2007-07-03 03:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always thought it was wrong to try and seduce another. Much less seek advice on the subject openly and publicly. You should be ashamed and obviously this person you are not really his true friend.
2007-07-03 03:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by M and M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't turn your best friend gay, what are you thinking?!
2007-07-06 01:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even try it. If he is, he'll come out on his own. You'll just scare him away and lose a friend at the same time....
2007-07-03 03:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by jay s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not turn someone gay, they are born that way, talk to him and see how he feels about you
2007-07-03 02:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by kanei 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If he is gay, then he will come out to you when he's ready. If he's straight....then I'm sorry. There is nothing you can do.
2007-07-03 02:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
this is a joke right?
If you're really gay, wouldn't you know/believe that being gay/lesbian isn't a choice?
2007-07-03 02:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by PrincessJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋