I've always been a nice guy... And haven't really had much of a love life. But I found this article that I think is awesome about describing it. If you've got a few minutes, take a read and let me know what you think!
http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html
2007-07-03 02:30:45 · 10 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
great read. well thought out. I think it's spot-on accurate. I see it on Yahoo answers all the time, girls will say " I can't stand players" or "I hate cheaters" or some such thing and the whole time I read them I know they aren't being completely honest, either with the question asker or themselves. They get turned on being treated like **it most of the time. I have found it to be true in experience as well. I was the nice guy most of high school, but changed, and got a lot more play for doing so.
2007-07-03 02:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by DFS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read the article. It was pretty accurate how girls will take advantage of the nice guys. I personally would never put a guy through that but it is usually the females who are spoiled little brats and think everyone owes them something. Please don't stop being the nice guy just choose to hang with different women who aren't making you their personal physiotherapist. They do have people to deal with people like that and they make a pretty good living at doing it!
2007-07-03 02:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the article, and from a female perspective, I would agree with nearly every word of it.
And to all the nice guys out there, remember this: Your female "buddies" will let you do favors for them, they will even go out and have fun with you, but when it comes to sex and romance, look elsewhere.
And by the way, I've been with a SUPER nice guy for more than four years now...the "players" with lots of flash and cash became tiresome and predictable.
2007-07-03 02:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Catchet22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!!Well, for one thing, I totally loved the article! I couldn't stop laughing while reading it. I agree with what the writer was saying completely. But like he stated, we girls do tend to grow out of the trend of liking *******, and focus on finding 'nice guys', lol. I actually think I'm finally growing out of it myself...but yeah, you probably have to just search around to find a girl who'll appreciate you. Good luck :)
2007-07-03 06:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Brit B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that nice guys are really sweet and everything. But the thing is non nice guys are for some reason girls are more attracted too. They have that whole entire bad boii thing going for them =]. But i do love the sweet/nice guys. It depends on what you think for girls. The girls that don't want you aren't worth it. The ones that do like it are worth it.
2007-07-03 02:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie_Mae 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, maybe in the middle , but NOT last
I married a nice guy , got tired of all the creeps,
besides my hubby is cute too :>)
2007-07-03 02:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep being nice you will find your soulmate
2007-07-03 02:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Esther S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha ha thats kool
2007-07-04 04:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they do.
2007-07-03 02:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by James L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not always
2007-07-03 13:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋