But he always cry due to heartaches. He fell in love with a straight guy all the time. He doesnt want to be having any sexual relationship with his fellow gay. He said it is disgusting to make love to another gay so he is always chasing straight guys. How can I help my bestfriend?
2007-07-03 00:50:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
what wrong with that, i,m stright and i my self have several gay and lesbian friends ,we have our inside jokes and we get along real well and i would trust them better then some stright
people i know, and i know if i get in a jam some where i know they will cover my back .
2007-07-03 01:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by atlantismeditation@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your friend is a bit in denial. He may announce that he is gay, but he then says that he is not attracted to gay men. Perhaps what he needs is to meet a gay guy who appears to be straight. There are quite a few gay guys out there who appear to be quite straight.
I know a gay couple who you might meet in the street and never know that either of them are gay, but they have been together for more than ten years.
Your friend needs to realize that he is not going to convert a straight man to being gay and he does not have to only be attracted to men that appear straight. Once he accepts that, he will probably meet a gay man who appears quite straight and do just fine.
Take care,
Troy
2007-07-03 01:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a hot gay guy to seduce him. I have a friend who is also gay, and is constantly falling for straight guys, but he also realizes that if he wants to get laid, it's going to have to be with another gay guy. I'm sure Allain knows this as well, but then again, maybe he just doesn't want to get laid...?
I don't know if this helps, but he needs a reality check and maybe you are the one to give it to him.
Good luck anyways!
2007-07-03 01:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by hotandbothered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you describe he never came out of the closet because he was never in.
(paraphrased from Quentin Crisp).
He is going to have to learn to accept that straight guys are just a dream to him (look but not touch) and if he persists he could get physically hurt.
Making love to another guy is disgusting????!!!!! Makes me wonder just how gay your friend is.
2007-07-03 01:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like this guy in a gay way and if so does he know it.
If not you should let him know and stick by him regardless he may need you some day.
To be honest all my friends were straight, not sure I ever really knew anyone who was gay. They certainly weren't open about it.
It's kinda sad
2007-07-03 01:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Bleu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sounds to me like you friend is confused! Either you are gay or you are not!
There are plenty of gay men out there that can pass for straight because they are not flamboyant and loud & Proud, more descrete if you know what I mean.
That is the type of man he needs to go after.
Well after he clears his head and totally admites to himself that he is gay.
2007-07-03 01:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by MORENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me this kid needs to grow up some. The story reeks of immaturity. Sometimes being a friend is giving tough advice. Tell him to grow up and stop being stupid. A real straight man is simply not attracted to other men therefore his falling for them is ridiculous.
2007-07-03 03:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. well...i have this same situation. and maybe he's afraid if he has a sexual relationship with a guy then he'll get AIDS, or some other STD. just reassure him that his chances of love will be higher with another gay guy and just make sure who he sleeps with gets tested before hitting the sack.
good luck:)
2007-07-03 01:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by ShAmRoCk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 23:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your best friend can help himself, tell him to chase somebody of his own sexuality.
Also, what is super gay? I thought either you were gay or gay... please explain.
2007-07-03 01:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by kwambonambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋