like happy 4th of july, etc...to show that u still care/think about them? like over email and keeping it simple?
2007-07-02 19:24:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
like they didnt rily wanna keep in contact with you but u still wanted to
2007-07-02 19:27:47 · update #1
Yes
If you really value the friendship with this person, there is no reason not to contact them, wish them a happy holiday and ask them what can be done to repair the relationship.
The most important thing to figure out though is what caused the problem in the first place and to determine if this is really a relationship worth repairing. As an example, if it is with an ex-boyfriend who was verbally, physically or emotionally abusive or unfaithful, is it really worth renewing the friendship?
I wish you the best of luck!
2007-07-02 19:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I did. I never did anything but make sure the indidvidual was happy-but something happened and they just refused contact with me-even so, I still congradualted the individual when he graduated, I did not expect him to get in contact back, I did it because I wanted to-this also shows him that I am the bigger person and don't hold a gurdge. You should too.
2007-07-03 02:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cherryberry 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are willing to allow that person to be a part of your life again I would think it was ok, but if you don't think this person can be trusted I definitely wouldn't send them good wishes, cause its like inviting them back into your life. : )
2007-07-03 02:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok it seems to me that you still have feelings for this person. It will shock hime when you do this because he probably wanna do the same thing he is just playing hard who knows you guys probably start talking again he probably wants to see where you stand in this situation.
2007-07-03 02:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by dont talk jus listen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A short message with a wish is OK. but as long as theres no sarcasm meant
2007-07-03 02:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so, just becuase your last conversation (or whatever it was) went badly doesnt mean that you cant be nice to them...so yes if i were you i would go ahead and wish them a Happy 4th of July :)
2007-07-03 02:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Haley Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depending on why u are really wishing them anything.....are u wishing them a happy holiday cause u mean it...or are u just really showing your presence, and making sure they know u are still around...but hey it doesnt hurt to wish them a happy 4th...or even a happy life....cause im sarcastic like that...so hey just doit
2007-07-03 02:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mommyx4 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you do, you would break alot of "don't be kind" taboo's. I salute your courtesy! Traditions that you are (sadly) having to ask about seem to be making a small come-back.
THANK YOU!
2007-07-03 02:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course!
2007-07-03 02:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea. My friend had a bad break-up with his gf (he caught her cheating on him). He tried a little to talk to her. Then she killed herself with a bottle of asprin so yea. Talk while you can so you don't feel bad when you didn't.
2007-07-03 02:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by kitty_kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋