do you apologize even if you feel that what happened wasn't your fault?
2007-07-02 18:13:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It doesn't have to be boyfriend/girlfriend. Family members count too.
2007-07-02 18:18:24 · update #1
Not always. I am stubborn. I try to be forgiving, but like the fight I had tonight with him he dug up some old wounds and I feel it is he who needs to apologize, not me. He was intentionally hurtful, and I am having a hard time with that.
2007-07-02 18:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by teashy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am usually the one who apologizes first even if it wasn't my fault.
2007-07-03 12:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Susie B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost always...I find that is the best way to clear the air in my house. I have a very stubborn husband sometimes but if I apologize first he is more likely to follow. And before you know it we are making up down and out!
2007-07-03 01:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by curious? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh I had a fight with my boyfriend the other day and I wanted to apologize but he did it first but yea sometimes i might
2007-07-03 01:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I am the one who apologizes first even if it was started by another person. I end up feeling guilty even though it was not my fault.
2007-07-03 01:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by dunno much 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time apologizing and it bothers me, When I know I'm wrong I beat myself up about it but never let on to anyone,, I feel guilty for being a hard @ss, and I know I screwed up and I have the ability to fix it but it's like I'd rather chew nails than admit I wrong...
That's something I know I have to work on!
2007-07-03 01:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lookin 4 ants 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does not hurt any one to apologize even if your not at fault. because you see you no your not and that is all that matters. You don't have to try and convince any one your not. (not unless it is a matter that would hurt you in some way).
2007-07-03 01:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by letitbeyou1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I apologize all the time. he's got pride issues so he doesn't apologize too often, but both of us are more action oriented (fixing the problem) rather than trying to make false apologies.
2007-07-03 01:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by christie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to but I don't anymore because they keep doing the same thing over and over and expect me to apologize.
2007-07-03 01:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I apologize if I lose my cool when I speak my mind.but I feel that I have as much right to have my way about things as anyone.
2007-07-03 12:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋