really really really want to stretch my ear and my parents won't let me how can i convince them to let me??????? they think it will leave a scar on my ear when ive finished stretching my ear and i want it back to normal. i really need help because i want to stretch my ear badly!
but im only stretching it 4mm and i heard to get ur ear bak to normal u just put in a 3mm leave it for a month or so then put in a 2mm leave it for a month and then back to normal???
2007-07-02 14:41:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
How old are you? there really isn't any way - if you are underage - to convince your parents to let you stretch your ear. If you do it, it will be very obvious to them. I am sure they will stop you before you leave the spacers in long enough to stretch your ear.
No, they do not go back once they are stretched.
2007-07-02 14:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hah dude I had the same problem, and I still do, but my mom compromised to let me go to a 12.. (I still wanna go to a 10 or 8).. anyways, what I did was some research and found that normally if you only go down to a size 0 or 00 (eaither one, I can't remeber) your ear would close to normal (or atleast a size 16). So maybe printing out info about gauging your ears could help them relize what you're doing and why. My mom hates the idea of me gauging, she doesn't understand it.... or me... but talking to her made it better (even though she still hates what I'm doing, but I'm still young so you think I care? lol)... she thinks I wont get a job when I'm older, I keep telling her I can take them out and let them go back.. you should be fine as long as you do it gradually and make sure your ears are clean, and not bleeding when you put new plugs im etc...
2007-07-02 15:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by KillingxxLights 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never heard of stretching the ear.
But your parents understand that fads come and go. If everyone followed every fad that came along we would be a strange civilization..
Not all fads are good for our wellbeing or our health.
Your parents obviously love and care for you or they would allow you to do whatever you wanted{ bet you didn't know that did you?}
Listen to what they are telling you, they care for you. And don't follow every new fad that comes along.
Be an individual, not one of the crowd.
2007-07-02 14:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not personal---they just want you to be married one day, and have children, and a "stretched ear" may seriously limit the number of eligible girls/women who want to date and marry you.
Think about who you want to be with 10 years from now. Is that girl/woman going to be thrilled by stretched ears?
2007-07-02 14:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
u shouldnt do that cuz everyone i noe that has it done says it hurts bad n it wil prob takee a while to get it back 2 normal size but it depends on how far u want to stretch it but i would think about it more b/c u may want it now but then u may not but i wouldnt cuz it hurts bad
2007-07-02 14:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go on bmezine.com You can get advice from other people who had to ask their parents.
2007-07-02 14:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by sweetalkpanic 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do you really need your parents permission? Just do it. Once you have, there's nothing they can do about it.
2007-07-02 14:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
that's really gross
there's probably very few girls on the planet that think it's attractive.
ew.
nasty. get your eyebrow pierced or snakebites.
snakebites are amazingly hot.
2007-07-02 14:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Thats ugly =[
2007-07-02 14:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lyssia 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
come on. . . ur not african slave! why wud u wana disgust ur apperance? i bet u look gud with out it too :)
2007-07-02 14:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by *julie* 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋