im pregnant!! how do i tell my bf n mom?

Question

me n my boyfriend have been fighting alot latly and i just found out im pregnant! im only 15..im so scared! im afraid he`ll deny it! im also scared about what my mom will say or think of me! plz help me i dunno what to do

Answer 1

Give your Mother a chance to help you, and give her a true accounting of your life and problems. That's her job.
99% of the "boyfriends" leave immediately---just expect this, and don't waste your time thinking about it.
But, now it's important to care for yourself, and live in the real world, where sex creates children.

Answer 2

Oh hunny this has to be a really hard time for you tell your mum first you'll feel better once its out she may be cross and may shout but just remember its only cos she loves you so much then figure out what you want to do next if you feel that your boyfriend will deny it just tell him but try not to turn it in to a fight just say if you want noting to do with us just say so as if he's going to deny it its probably because f 2 things firsty hes scared of what his parents will say and how your mum will react and maybe even his mates chin up though you'll get through it my friend had a baby at 15 and another at 19 even though its probably not ideal she manages fine and has a good job and shes on her own me on the other hand live with the guy ive been with for the past 8 yrs and have 2 kids so either way can work and there are other options for you to discuss with your mum or dr all the best chick x

Answer 3

Breathe in and out, relax. Take a moment to think everything over. I am 15 and got pregnant with twin girls. I told my boyfriend and he was in shock but before he died in a car accident I knew that he was happy. Your boyfriend will want to know the truth, realationships are trust and honesty not lies. As for your mom she might take it a little hard seeing she is going to be a grandma. I have been through what you are going through. I told my momo straight up and she id just getting to understand what I am going through. You have to trust your friends and family, and I know that they love you so they should help you in any way they can. It might take some time, but I know that you will be okay. All you have to do is relax and everything will happen the way it should. There is a reason that you should have this baby you might not know yet but there is.

Email me if you want to talk or ask any more question. I know what it is like, to tell you mom and boyfriend. Email me at [e-mail]. If you want because you can talk to me and ask me anything you need help with. Don't be scared of your friends or family ask.

Answer 4

Tell your mom asap. You need to schedual a doctors appointment and you will definatly need a lot of support and who's better then your mom? She will be upset and probably mad but she will come around. Keep your cool though. As for your boyfriend you need to tell him too asap. He needs to know and really you will never know the way he will react, but no matter what don't let him loose! If anything make sure you get child support. I hate it when girls just let their boyfriends leave and make them take care of their babies all by themselves! Anyways, I was in this situtation as well. I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I were having problems but I told him the next day I knew and as for my mom she found out herself from someone else when I was 10 weeks. My boyfriend took it kind of bad but now he's really come to terms with it (it will just take time) and as for my mom she has been very heplful. But I would suggest the sooner the better because it's going to happen sometime.

Answer 5

I could give you the whole spiel about condoms, and safe sex, but it sounds a little too late for that.
Firstly are you absolutely sure you are pregnant? A missed/late period can be due to stress. Get a test and confirm it before telling anyone.
Next tell your Mum, as soon as possible. Yes, she will be angry and upset, but she's the one to talk to about this. Discuss the options. Then fill in the boyfriend, and make a decision.
If you decide to have it, you will need to have a visit to the doctors to check that everything is going well, and have regular checks throughout the pregnancy.
A paternity test will confirm if he's the father.

Answer 6

I am 23 yrs and i was terrified to tell my mom and dad that i am pregerrs. Seriously!!! Its not going to be very easy to tell your mom but i think after that, informing your boyfriend wont be so bad. Just remember some lil person is now depending on you and only you! not your mom, boyfriend, sister or friend. All that matters is you and what you need to do for your baby. Yes your going to hear your too young.... blah blah blah. all that matters is your talking care of your baby. A happy mom is a healthy baby. I still keep telling myself that every day.

Answer 7

You poor thing, you must be terrified. I know it's going to be really hard, but you need to tell your mum, and you need to do it now. If you're definitely pregnant, you need help and advice, and you're too young to deal with this yourself, and it's doubtful you'll get much support from your boyfriend - your mum might be angry, yes, but she loves you more than anything - any mother will tell you that - and she's really the best person to help you explore all your options. Just take a deep breath and tell her - it'll be far better that way that if she figures it out herself, just tell her you're pregnant, you're scared and you need her.

Answer 8

Mom is the best friend in this kind of situations. Tell everything to her and she will be the one who will give you the best answer. I am sure there will be some screaming and tears, but she will surprise you with the decision.
Most of the teenage b/fs leave as soon as they hear that, but if yours really loves you and respects you he will stay. Beside, he is as responsible for that as you.
BUT if u r arguing that much, r u sure u want him to be next to u all that time?

Answer 9

I am a mum with a daughter the same age as you & she was in your circumstance at the start of the year.
She told me & I was upset but I was there for her whatever choice she made.
I don't always agree with the choices but she is my daughter and I love her whatever mistakes she makes.
I am here to support all my children.

Answer 10

It will be hard but you have to tell them, they will find out sooner or later and the quicker you get it out of the way, the sooner you can move forwards in your life.

Congrats babies aren't always such a terrible thing.