My hubby say it to me many times a day its kind of annoying if i don't answer him he think i don't love him! Do you get annoyed sometimes too?
2007-07-02 14:07:02 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL. thats funny....i would be a little annoyed too. i think he might be worried about your relationship subconciously. he needs the reassurement that you do love him back. try to show him in obvious ways that you do love him and he might not have the need to constantly tell you he loves you. i think once or twice a day would be good for me, but i wouldnt trip if i didnt hear it one day-after all i dont want it to turn into just another old habit. it has to be special so i dont want to hear it so often that it doesnt sound special anymore.
2007-07-02 14:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Love101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married to my wife for 4 years, And I love her more and more each day. I tell my wife I love her when she leaves for work in the morning, if she rings me during the day I always end the call with an 'I Love You', I tell her I love her again when I kiss her when she gets home from work & the last thing I say to her before we turn the lights out at night is 'I Love you'. I also might say it just because I want to. So on average I would say that I say it at least 7 times a day.
And you know what? Every time I say It I Mean it from the bottom of my heart.
2007-07-02 14:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ian L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not suppose to tell each other you love each other many times a day. That takes the spark out of it and it will obviously become annoying.
You have to confront him and just tell him how you feel "Anything too much is no good" If he is going over the line and becoming annoying, you have to stop it. Just say, you want it to be special. He can't treat "I love you" like part of his day, because then it won't mean a thing.
Just tell him to stop, so when he does feel the need to tell you he loves you, it will be exciting.
2007-07-02 14:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man and I say it rarely - when he needs to hear it from me he is usually insecure. I feel put on the spot - and though I do love him - it seems weird having it pulled out of me. When I am having a sweet feeling for him though - I often call him and tell him in a voice mail.
Be creative - when he says I love you - ask him what it is he loves about you. Then you can say - I love you because ___.
Or say - you are so sweet!!! Or well, I ADORE you - or I am HOT for you - or I love you more...
My daughter makes it a rule to always say I love you when she hangs up the phone with me. Maybe you can do it then as a habit - or when he leaves for work. Then its not him always saying it if he is trying to get reassurance.
Maybe you are more conservative in your expression - you could tell him that you want to say it when you really mean it.
2007-07-02 14:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Hearing my wife say she loves me is never annoying. She isn't clingy or needy but we say it several times a day and if one of goes somewhere, we always say I love you before they leave. Always when we go to bed at night also. I think it's important to at least say it before one of you leaves the house because you never know what might happen. I think you should never go to bed angry at each other either. I guess it depends on your relationship and how you interact with each other. There isn't a right or wrong number of times to tell someone you love them.It should come from the heart, not because you feel obligated.
2007-07-02 14:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your concern. I once felt that way too with my husband, he would tell me everyday...sort of like coaxing me into saying it. I sat him down one day and told him that maybe if he did not so often then that will give me the chance to express my feelings, and that I do not wish to feel compelled in saying I LOVE YOU or feel smothered for that matter....as it can get annoying.
You know your husband and how to relate to him...maybe not the way I did ...it may sound a bit harsh..but do it the way you feel. All in all , you need to communicate this to him, let him know it is not that you do not love him..but that you need some breathing space and eventually you will begin to expressing you feelings towards him.
2007-07-02 14:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try and say it with meaning so that helps out and the wife has been saying at least once an hour ever scenes I moved home after a 3 month separation!
2007-07-02 14:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be very happy and feel good that your husband is always telling you that he loves you. There are some relationships out there where they hardly ever hear that from their husbands. I personally think you are very blessed to have a husband that really loves you.... lots of women have men that don't really care about them.
2007-07-02 14:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in a house where, "I love you", was said every time we would say "good-bye" or "good night". I say "I love you", when I hang up with my family or friends, after talking on the phone. Maybe he was brought up that way. If not, and he just wants to see if you say it back, now that's annoying.
2007-07-02 14:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Miss YSL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No set amount but we say it many times a day. I'm never annoyed by it. I love him.
2007-07-02 14:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋