She is very beautiful and sexy. She likes to tease me when my wife is not around and now she is even coming on to me when she is around. she My wifes friend knows I like her and am attracted to her.What should I do? My wife and I have awesome sex after she leaves. Problem is I am thinking about her friend.
2007-07-02 14:02:51 · 28 answers · asked by Geoff 62 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok guys I spoke with my wifes friend. She said that if didn't do her she was going to tell my wife we have been having an affair! I told my wife what was going on. She admitted she new about the situation and wanted me to to do her friend to ease her guilt of her havung an affair with some guy. Now what?
2007-07-02 23:48:24 · update #1
Be really rude to her, man. One day just say, "F*CK OFF,OK?!" She needs to hear it that way if she's gonna try something that wrong. It's not a situation that should be taken lightly if she is seriously coming on to you. If she keeps doin it confront her again. If she blatantly tries it more than once after u confront her...TELL YOUR WIFE. Problem solved.
2007-07-02 14:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by amblahblur00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not a very good friend to your wife, is she? Do you think you can be man enough to respect your wife's feelings and do what's right? Does honesty or self control mean anything to you? How would you feel if you knew your wife was thinking about your best friend while in bed with you? How would you feel if your best friend was seducing your wife? Think of someone besides yourself for a start. Tell the truth. Your wife has a right to know and you should get a grip before you ruin her life.
2007-07-02 14:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Comancheria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It always amazes me how quickly people forget about how horrible a person is when sexual attraction comes into the picture. Why would you WANT a woman that would 1. betray her best friend, 2. come on to a married man, 3. do it in your own house. That's a crass, cold hearted slutty b*tch. How could you even be attracted to a person whose values were that screwed up? Any woman that would cheat with you, will cheat on you. But go ahead, get your kicks, you don't seem strong enough to see it for what it is, you are only concerned with yourself and are flattered by the attention. You deserve each other, and I hope she gives you herpes.
Hopefully your wife will eventually heal from being betrayed by the 2 closest people to her who are supposed to love her.
2007-07-02 14:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try being honest.
You're flattered by the attention, and are not doing anything to discourage it. You ARE a border-line cheat. Your wife deserves better, both from you and her so-called best friend.
If you don't want to be a cheat, nip this in the bud. If you are thinking of pursuing this, tell you wife and leave.
If you do leave for the other woman, you might find out she's only attracted to the "Unattainable" and it wouldn't last. Maybe she just wants you because her "Best friend" has you.
Or maybe she, and your wife, are checking out your fidelity?
2007-07-02 14:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I have very few girls as friend. I have a freind at work and shes only 19 I am 31 my hubby is turning 40 this year she is young and she does really stupied stuff. She knows I would do just about anything for her but she also got the point when I told her if she shaked her *** at my hubby again intentially or not she wouldnt have one. I dont put up with that crap out of any one and it tickles my hubby to death. We are married and we are committed and devoted to each other totally and even though we know this I dont put up with women and he dont put up with men. Which in my case I am such a redneck he doesnt get to say much cause I tell them off my self. He is a supervisor so he has to watch what he says. Idont and I dont care.
2007-07-02 14:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation except it was my buddies gf. Dont do anything you'll ever regret. Trust me on this one. I didnt make a very good choice and lost alot. Listen to the others too, she needs to be put in her place. She has no respect for your wife, you or your marriage.Think about it like that. *bet you havent*. Be polite but firm. IF you love and respect your wife you should have no problem with this. If you do have a problem telling her to back off, maybe your marriage isnt all that good. Think, think, think befor you ruin something. Good luck.
2007-07-02 14:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
eventually your wife will figure things out they always do so if you want to keep your wife stay away from the so called freind when she comes over leave the room... or tell your wife that she is hitting on you that way your wife will know what kind of person she is... and you a serious jerk for thinking about the friend while having sex with your wife,,, your a sick sick man
2007-07-02 14:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Smile 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who'll make you laugh will make you cry.
If you value your relationship with your spouse and love her, all it should be is a passing fancy with the other chick. In fact you should tell your wife that you are flattered but not interested and if she is a real friend of your wife she should not entertain or excite you. That's all it is, it's a feeling that come and go. You should not base your life choices on feelings.
Tell that home-wrecker to getta-step-pin. That ain't cute!
2007-07-02 14:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dee D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife that her best friend isn't all that great. And stay away from her. You are treading in some dangerous water. The fact that she already knows you are attracted to her means thing have all ready gone to far. Tell your wife now and get rid of the friend.
2007-07-02 14:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by ofsoundmind 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think if you respect and love your wife, value your marriage. I would tell my wife in front of the girlfriend. The flirting is not healthy or OK. My opinion, if your wife is blind to her "friends" behavior, you as her "husband" should bring it to her attention. How would you feel if it were your friend and your wife? Sounds as though you already have your mind made up, you are simply waiting for the opportunity. God bless****
2007-07-02 14:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋