He has been telling her how much he cares for her and wants to be with her. He is leaving an email address for her to contact him. His poems state that he does not know how to express his feelings for her. My thing is.... he's married why is he sending poems to another woman?? I want to ask her about it and just blow the whole thing out of the water.
2007-07-02 12:57:29 · 15 answers · asked by blittyboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she doesn't even know who is sending them, she is certainly not the problem, your husband is and that is who you need to take up the matter with, not an innocent 3rd party that he has developed some school boy crush over.
Find out what he feels is missing from your marriage that he feels the need to create some e-mail fantasy relationship with another woman.
2007-07-05 00:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 21:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a lot of love to give and you aren't receiving it. I wouldn't try to blow him out of the water or confront her. (Probably she isn't encouraging this attention anyway). Embarrassing him in front of her will just drive him away from you. It would be better to talk to him about it, without accusing or arguing. He's calling for your help. Try to find out what he thinks is lacking in your relationship that this other woman could supply. (It's all his fantasy -- if he went to her he would eventually have the same problems he thinks he has now.) See if you can use this as a springboard to rediscover the qualities in each other that brought you together in the first place. Very good luck to you and him.
2007-07-02 13:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a lot better than the society teaching how to worship Satan. The Watchtower Society used to teach that the pyramids were from God and actually claimed that the great pyramid was a "Bible in stone." Using Pyramidology, the date of 1914 was first arrived at by the measurement in inches along a passageway of the great pyramid, that even turned out to be a wrong measurement. Even though it is the wrong date, they still use it. The Watchtower organization now teaches that Pyramidology is the work of Satan, therefore in their own words they have admitted that they taught the work of Satan as the work of God. Do you know of any Christian organization that does that? For some time they even had the winged disk of Baal on the cover of the Watchtower magazine. They blame bad light for their “Old truths” and need “new Light” to see the the new truths that are often then reverted to the “Old Truths” anyway. I know I would never trust my eternity to an organization that taught the works of Satan as God’s works. Then they tell us that Christ approved of them teaching how to follow Satan???
2016-05-17 04:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you talk with her? He's the one who is doing something inappropriate. If he's doing this now and you know about it, how many others has he been interested in and how many more will he be interested in?
I know it's hard to separate out these things, but it's not about the woman, and it's not about you though it's affected you. It's about his level of committment to you. It's also about what those wandering eyes are doing to your relationship and your feelings, and what those wandering eyes tell you about him.
I have two questions for you...Do you trust him? One more question, is he worth your trust? You deserve to be treated with respect and love, and not have to deal with this kind of thing. A husband and wife are supposed to treat each other with love, and it doesn't sound like he's doing his part if he is writing to someone else.
2007-07-02 13:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by el repollo rojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you can tell her!
But, these poems seem to be the least of your worries, to me. This is the time you've CAUGHT your husband. What makes you think this is the first time this has happened?
You need to have a long talk with him about where your marriage stands.
2007-07-02 13:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your husband about it? This woman doesn't even know who is sending these poems to her and doesn't have a clue that he is married. There is no way for her to know or even guess why he is sending them. Its not her you should be talking to.
2007-07-02 13:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely talk to your husband about that situation....if anyone is blowing anything out of the water, it is your husband who obviously does not know the meaning of the word commitment.
2007-07-02 14:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by luerai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him theres no reason for a husband to be sending poems to a female
2007-07-02 13:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, like everybody else here, can't understand the women that think they should go after the other woman.
SHE didn't make vows to you, your husband did. It's twisted thinking to think going after her is the answer.
2007-07-02 13:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋