I am not a lesbian either , so don't accuse me of being one .
I wonder if I am normal , has anyone elese been in a similar situation ?
2007-07-02 11:25:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
To quote a portion of an old song, "Fools rush in where wisemen never dare to tread." There is nothing wrong with you. Perhaps you are just more level-headed than other girls your age. And not having an interest in boys at your age isn't an indication that you are, or ever will be, a lesbian. I was in my late teens before I decided guys weren't as stupid as I thought they were. I was busy with other interests and friends.
2007-07-02 11:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. There are many girls, including myself, who weren't interested in boys until 17, 18 yrs of age. Maybe you see something (though you may not be aware) of the boys around like, say, immaturity, for example. You know you are not a lesbian, so you have nothing to be worried about. Like Arabmuslim said, don't be in a hurry to grow up - boys will only complicate your life at your age and trust me, you don't need that right now.
2007-07-02 11:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa M. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I didn't get intrested in boys until I was 18 years old. I never dated either and was never with a guy before I met my husband and we got married when I was 19. I'm 20 now and happily married for 7 months. So yes it is normal. Don't be in a hurry to grow up.
2007-07-02 11:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I was your age, the boy around me were pretty unlikeable, myself included! We were clumsy, crude goof balls. I'm guessing not a heck of a lot has changed?
So there's nothing wrong with you at all. Sooner or later you'll start meeting guys who ARE likable. Until then don't stress over it.
Don't worry, you'll be fine. I can tell.
2007-07-03 05:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Everyone develops at different stages. Have your started your period or developed breasts yet? (i know these are uncomfortable questions, and you don't have to answer them to me or anyone, but just something for you to notice of yourself) if that hasn't happened, then you are a late bloomer and you should count your blessings. You get to still be a kid and enjoy life without the drama or hormonal emotional fluxes.
Also, it is possible for people to grow to be asexual. this is where they aren't attracted to either sex. nothing to be scared or worried about.
2007-07-02 11:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Malina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal and ok. Boys are a pain in the butt at 14 anyway.
2007-07-02 11:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mandiex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you are just a late blumer, most likely. I have a friend who is almost 16, and she still doesnt have a sex drive. You are probably like her a little bit, you might have been brought up in a sheltered life. just try to think about boys as much as you can, it might help.
2007-07-02 11:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by sabaku no gaara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all get this nothing is wrong with you. Liking boys is complicated so consider your self lucky, because once you start liking them you cant go back and it mess with your Head and everything so just chill.
2007-07-02 15:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by tynkabelle03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal.
You will be one of the smart ones who has a goof life free of teenage pregnency to because when you do like boys, if you do it, you seem smart enough to be safe.
2007-07-02 13:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Greg P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend... Emily.. is sorta like you... she doesn't like boys and she is 13 and 1/2!! lol..But yes, you are normal.. I also know a boy who is like that and he is 21... :) so don't be scared. :D
2007-07-02 14:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋