My Fiance's ex girlfriend just had a baby that she is claiming is his. He hasn't seen her yet and told the mom he wouldn't sign the birth certificate until her had a DNA test. well he wanted to see what the baby looked like and he went online to this page that the hospital puts up pictures of the newborns. under the babies picture it says parents and then it has her name and his name. only first names. he is pissed. he can't believe that the hospital would let her put his name since he didn't go and hasn't signed the birth certificate. he doesn't even know if the kid is his. I told him that there probably isn't much he can do since they only put first names. what do you think about this?
2007-07-02 08:40:30 · 7 answers · asked by Supermommy!!! 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
no actually he loves children. we are expecting too (13 weeks and 2 days). please no comments about that we are very happy and this is something we wanted. to each their own.
2007-07-02 08:50:13 · update #1
Well my best advice is donyour top until you know if its his or not.
Why? Well first of all if he is the dad his name should be there. Point blank
After the results if hes not, then you can aske her to get out of your life, and concentrate on your baby.
He shouldt care, as long as you are aware of whats going on. If you know about it...whats the problem, shes being childish in putting his name in against his wishes...dont follow her game, and just ignore it...She probably wants a reaction from him, so dont give her the satisfaction.
Congrats on the babe!!
2007-07-02 08:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Nathaly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is learning a hard lesson not to use pregnancy protection. There is a significant cost to DNA testing but if he is smart he will have it done ASAP. The mother, baby and he have to be in the same office at the same time for the test to be done, by swabbing the inside cheek.
If he is the father he will be obliged to pay child support. If he is the father he needs to go to court and have equal custody and full visitation rights.
I bet there is nothing he can do but if I were he I would call the hospital administrator and ask his name be removed due to the questionable circumstances.
2007-07-02 15:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definately needs to have the DNA test done. He could call the hospital and let them know that he would appreciate it if they could remove his name from their website photo gallery since they're in the process of finding out if he is the father. I hope if he does end up being the father that he will help support the baby. Good luck with that.
2007-07-02 15:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by tracey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get him to call the hospital and try to speak to someone who is in charge of that, just explain that he does not want his name on the website and that he did not give permission for his name to be on there.
2007-07-02 17:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should just get the test done and quit being so self-centered. A name is just that, a name. My baby is being denied because the guy doesn't want a child, why does he deny it? Doesn't he know who he had intercourse with?
2007-07-02 15:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by twinkie.2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's o.k,like you said they only put he 1st names.It could be anybody.Do you know how many ppl have your bf's 1st name?.Tell him just see if the test can be done while she's still in the hospital.(D.N.A)if so do that and don't worry about the name thing.
2007-07-02 15:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he ought to take the DNA test to get the situation solved
2007-07-02 15:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋