Pubic hair shaving?

Question

My gf has shaved all her pubic hair off and wants to keep it that way, trouble is I preferred it the natural way. We both love oral (me giving her it nearly every night) and it's a bit stubbly down there now. Girls would u be offended if ur bf asked you to grow it back? I know it's her body and she can do what she wants with her pubic hair

ps. I don't want to say I won't give her oral because I adore doing it.

Answer 1

LOL....i love you ...lol...not many guys like it 'au natural' down there and kudos to you for liking it lol...maybe she could get just a bikini wax instead of shaving as its stubble free and you can keep at least a landing strip sized patch of hair....and she can that patch and both of you could be happy....please bring the topic up gently...gently and tell her your tongue/face gets sore from rubbing against stubble and discuss waxing as an option

Answer 2

well maybe she wants to keep it that way as it does highten oral for her. dont ask me why it just does. can you not strike a compromise? ask her if she's gonna go bald can she not get it waxed so you dont get stubble rash on your face! or maybe she could just shave once a month, using wax or creams will soften the hairs and make them less corse so you wont get the stubble effect. just tell her you prefer it natural. she might go along with you. she may just be enjoying the change for a while and may well go back when she realises it itches like a mo fo when it grows back! lol tell her she's also at risk of ingrown hairs from shaving there and if they become infected will scar her. this is true.

Answer 3

tell her how you feel, for goodness sake. theres nothing worse than stubbly skin.

suggest she wax, as this will make the hair grow back finer and not stubbly at all. sure, its painful, but its only every few weeks.

and why does she want to keep it that way? does she prefer the feel, or does she feel that maybe YOU prefer it like this?

say that, even though you love giving her oral, you dont enjoy the feel of shaved skin. its not fun if only one person is enjoying it.

plus, congrats, it sounds like you have a great sex life:)

Answer 4

It wouldn't offend me at all if my hubby asked me to let it grow back. Although, he's more stubbly than I am, since I hated the stubble on me so much that I ended up waxing and getting the hair out by the roots! Yeah, it hurt, but it stays smooth! Good luck, man!

Answer 5

Most men prefer it all off! But if she shaves rather than waxes then she will be stubbly and likely to get pimples.

Tell her you prefer 'the real her', and ask her to grow it back. In fact ASK HER not US ;)
She can do what she wants, but if you genuinely dont like it, then dont do it. Its a trade-off, if you both prefer oral to hair then it stays off, if she prefers oral to no hair, then she may regrow it if you stop. But dont stop just to get your way, only if you really dont like it.

Answer 6

If I were you I'd mention that you miss the hair - she'll get the message. She may be a little reluctant though since it tends to itch like crazy when it's growing back in. If she's dedicated to keeping it bare then maybe you can get her a gift certificate for a wax - less stubble for you and less shaving for her...or maybe you should offer to shave it for her - could be fun!

Answer 7

It probably feels the same as the stubble from a man's face. Maybe if you explain it to her and ask, she might let some of it grow back and keep the edges clean.

Answer 8

I wouldn't be offended...trimmed is fine but shaved gives you a whole load of problems.. Ingrowing hairs (painful)..rashes.... hair is there for a reason........also when the hair starts growing back it will be visibly stubbly through swim wear and underwear.

Answer 9

Being "bald" down there, so to speak, actually can increase arousel. She is in direct contact with you during both oral and penetration. Growing it back happens pretty fast, but it comes up itchy and dry sometimes. But tell her that you would like it back and she may grow it all back. But like I said, it increases sexual arousel and that may be why she likes it all off. Also with short shorts and bikinis, shaving it all of reduces the risk of them hanging out of her clothes, which can be embarrassing.

Answer 10

I used to shave mine for many years. I liked it that way. One day I was having a conversation about it with my husband and he said he preferred it "full bush". So I stopped shaving it. Try to bring it up in conversation. She shouldn't be offended- it's your personal taste.