What I ve noticed at school is that all the str8 boys in school hate the gay queen types of gay boys, but yet hang arouund the jock, bisexual, macho gay boys. Ok what I'm trying to ask is it homosexual people hate itself, or the individuals personality, and is bisexual guys (masculine) more accepted by society, than gay guys (fiminin)...or dont get me wrong gay guys can be masculine also, but just straight acting
2007-07-02 07:12:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
don't take it personal, people in general usually befriend 'like' people, it's called mirror image. people they perceive as being similar to them. it's human nature
2007-07-02 07:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by TRACER ™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in our society, many straight men tend to be uncomfortable around feminine acting men regardless of whether they're homosexual or not. Young people nowadays are pretty openminded when it comes to sexuality, and relatively tolerant of even the most 'queeny' gay guys. But when it comes down to it, the majority of straight guys are homosocial, meaning they prefer to socialize with other masculine guys. Additionally, straight guys want to hang around straight girls, for obvious reasons. Feminine homosexuals are neither masculine nor straight, therefore it's more of a social incompatibility than anything else. And obviously its not true for everyone.
2007-07-02 14:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alright, this topic always pisses me off. If you are a flaming queen, then even gay people don't like you.
If you are a kid under the age of consent, sex should not even be a concern.
Lastly, every gay person isn't a limp-wristed, noodle-armed choir boy. Lots of "jocks" are gay.
Stereotypes on anyone are wrong and set everyone back.
2007-07-02 14:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rothwyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is weird. Gay people are very diverse. They run the gamut from flaming queens to super macho bear types. I think people just like to hang out with people that are similar to them. So, even though they may be gay, the "butch" gay boys are more accepted. It doesn't make it right, but that's how it is.
2007-07-02 14:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Louie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok for you to come out after all your online now and your friends can't find you to beat you up.
Gay men are not all fems there really aren't as many fems as you might think.
I think the fem thing starts out so others know they are gay and it just sticks.
I say if your a man then be a man it's more attractive to other men
2007-07-03 09:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Bleu 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm gay, and yet I don't fit the stereotype, I love playing sports, and I'm not feminine at all, and personally I don't like the feminine act gay's, that type of gay isn't in the norm, no offense bro,
2007-07-02 16:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kindled and Confused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well feminine guys are so much different from them. That's why they usually hand with girls/woman. I'd be pretty embarrassed being seen with some gay queen. plus they are so annoying, how long can you hold out before punching them in the face. Regular gay guys are better
2007-07-02 14:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
str8 boys think that maybe we gay ppl are desperate. they thimk that maybe we will start making moves on them or something!
2007-07-03 15:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by lonelyfinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like "Queen Guy's" if theyre nice... but most of them are whiney little bitc.hes, like girl queens. I think if most "masculine" guys wanna subject themselves to that, they'll go for the one with boobs... if you get what im saying.
2007-07-02 14:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men desire to with other men who are their equals.
Men who bend over and submit themselves to other men's sexual desires choose not to be their equal, and do choose to be submissive to other men.
Why would any man desire to be with people who choose to be less than they are?
2007-07-02 14:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 2⤊ 8⤋