Ok i do love my husband but he is terrible with money. He works hard everyday, comes home, takes out the trash and that sort of thing but i've gotten use to a man with money and that type lifestyle. and if my friends find out hes broke,,,,they'll talk about me forever.
2007-07-02 06:28:19 · 8 answers · asked by blossum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it's crazy....why did you marry him if this was such an issue? Grow up!
2007-07-02 06:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by deborah g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's your problem right there. You just defined yourself as a gold digger. You need to grow up and realize that money can't buy you love. You stated that you would love this man " For better or worse, Through richer or poorer, Till death do you part". They have class for financial management if he really needs it and you could stand going to a couple of them yourself. And the fact that you are worried about what your friends are thinking shows that you aren't ready to be tied down because all that should matter is your husband. Your friends should be the least of your concerns because once again they aren't gonna love you like your husband will and they sure *** hell won't spend their last penny on you. Appreciate what you got and go through the worst so that when the best comes you can enjoy them together. Hope I shined some light into your dark world.
2007-07-02 13:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by desaun08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what ur friends think? If ur hubby is so terrible w/ money, y don't u take control of it? Love is always more important than money. Obviously u really aren't used 2 a man w/ money or the lifestyle b/c ur w/ a man w/ no money and u seem 2 b happy outside of caring about what ur friends think. I think u need 2 find new friends.
2007-07-02 13:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Misty D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't care about what others think of you. If you were acustomed to a certain lifestyle with your ex-significant other, than perhaps you should have chosen someone more compatible than what you have now. Also, if you enjoy a more fruitful life than what your Husband can provide, then you might want to consider ways to bring in more money yourself, if your the ambitious type.
2007-07-02 13:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money doenst buy happiness,it creates an atmosphere ect. Dont be a gold digger,for if you do you will get whats comming to ya at 30 married to wealth man,he decides to turn you in for much newer model ect(not all but most). Sounds as if you have a good man,maybe you should leavee him for a good women to pick up.
2007-07-02 13:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is such a big deal for you - why did you marry the man in the first place? There's nothing wrong in having standards, but this is something you should normally think about BEFORE you proceed with the relationship.
2007-07-02 13:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,...... money is the #1 reason for half of the marriages going down the tubes, I know .
2007-07-02 13:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must at least foot the bills of his responsibilties as a husband, if he cannot even do that, leave him....
2007-07-04 01:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋