We got married 10 months ago. We love each other very much. But none of us seems to have interest in sex.
Is our marriage gonna suffer for this?
On an average how often do married couple have sex?
We didn't have it for a couple of months ... (I know!!!)
2007-07-02 06:28:01 · 11 answers · asked by blublurain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex is very important to a marriage. It is a way to connect with your spouse on such an intimate level, and is something just between the two of you.
With work and hectic life sometimes you just have to make yourself. . . .set up a special evening for the two of you and reconnect on every level.
I don't know what the average for married couples is, but it is a rare occasion that my husband and I don't have sex.
2007-07-02 06:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by sparkles9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me sex is the biggest priority in a marriage. Your acting like friends not a married couple. When my husband and I were married, sex was the main thing on the plate. I like sex and for 10 years we had sex every night sometimes 3 times on the weekend a couple of times twice at night during the week If you have a husband that turns you on, man there nothing in this world like a good sex life. I thing you become addicted to sex , especially if you have man that knows all the spots in your body, sex in your relationship, it is heaven here on earth. The most satisfying thing that has ever happened to me. I couldn't sleep in the same bed without sex at least one time in the night, and more if you both wake up a little horney and get it on when you please, I pleased all the time . WOW.
2007-07-02 13:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband & I r lucky 2 have sex more than once a month and we've been married 4 3 years. We have 3 kids and both work, our marriage hasn't suffered 4 it and we get along great. When we get a break from the kids we get so excited that we get pissy drunk and end up passing out. So sex isn't a priority-enjoying each others company is.
2007-07-02 13:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Misty D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex is an important part of marriage and Im sure some people will disagree. I believe the physical touch of your spouse is essential to make you feel like you still turn him on. My husband and I got married 15 months ago and have sex about once-twice a week. I want more-- but we have kids, work etc. Sometimes I think we all need to make time to be intimate with our mates :)
2007-07-02 13:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by midnight_quickie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are best friends, not husband/wife. I have been married 17 years and still am very sexually attracted to my wife. We make love on average 3 times a week.
2007-07-02 13:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by elb366 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If everything else is OK, don't worry about sex - it will happen when it happens. It's typical for couples to 'slow down' their sex life as their love matures. But do try to set aside some time for intimacy without other distractions.
2007-07-02 13:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mover50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if it's not bothering either of you, and no one is complaining, it's no big deal. i have been married for 8 years and we have sex about once or twice a week if were lucky,, kids and jobs play a big part, in ones sex life. i go's along the line of, (if it's NOT broken,, don't fix it!
2007-07-02 13:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both happy and there are not other issues, physical problems, etc. Don't sweat it. It's not that big of a deal.
2007-07-02 14:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by tigrompy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Sweat it.....if neither of you has a problem with it, its not a problem!..The danger arises when it is one sided..don't let that go un-resolved..that only leads to bigger problems down the road
2007-07-02 13:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is ok, you might want to go see a counselor to shed some light on this.
2007-07-02 14:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋