we have 1 (1 yr old) son together already and he is ready to have another one, is he trying to trap me?
2007-07-02 06:11:23 · 23 answers · asked by starrz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be honest with him about your feeling towards having another child...And you can get on some kind of birth control
2007-07-02 06:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trap you for what...you already have a kid with him. If you are not ready for another child at this time tell him. Let him know that you are still trying to get into the groove with the first one. Plan the second one together or let him know there are some goals you would like to accomplish before you have a second child.
2007-07-02 13:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't say if he is trying to trap you or not. Not enough details. But, if you are not ready and unsure, you need to tell him that as honestly as you just told us. Just because you are married does not mean you don't control your body. Go on the pill or the patch if you are not ready for another child and/or you are not sure about another child with this man.
2007-07-02 13:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't b able 2 trap u if he tried. If ur not ready 2 have another baby just yet, SAY so. Tell him that ur body isn't ready and u want the chance 2 spoil ur son b4 he has 2 share u w/ someone else.
2007-07-02 13:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Misty D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not ready for another baby. You want to enjoy your son's first of everything first. Try to make him understand that right now you don't feel like it's the best time. Babies are very expensive also.
2007-07-02 13:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by csprincess2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boy do you sound like me!! lol...my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years and we have a little girl together, she is five. he wants another baby and i am just not ready. i have straight out told him that and if he doesn't like it then too bad! it's my body and i say im not ready. i would like more children in the future. but not now.
he accepts that but not happy about it. i don't think it's a trap, i just think that children have a way of making everyone more grown up and i think that maybe he wants another one because he truely feels that he is ready. you are not! if he waits then great! but if not then he had other motives. hope this helped you out! =)
2007-07-02 13:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down and talk to him. Communication is so important in a relationship. Don't keep it from him anymore. I doubt he is trying to trap you. But if you are truly not ready for another you have to let him know.
Best of luck.
2007-07-02 13:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just say "no"? It's your body, is it not? Birth control is easily available to those who seek it out.
How is having a 2nd child trying to 'trap' you? Why is that more trapped than having a first child?
2007-07-02 13:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he is trying to trap you or not. (not enough info). Howver, the only way to tell him you aren't ready for a number 2 child is to TELL him. Men don't read minds.
2007-07-02 13:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by Gwen D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not neccesarily. I think that sometimes men do not realize how demanding it is to be pregnant and care for a child afterward. Just tell him that you want to have time to enjoy this baby first and at least want him to be out of diapers. Tell him the truth! I wish you the best of luck!!
2007-07-02 13:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋