i am 25 and still virgin. how do i know if i am still technical virgin? i am scared telling someone... what should i tell a guy? and if i will have sex.. how much will the bleeding be?
2007-07-02 04:09:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i was fingered before but i did not like it because it was painful but it did not bleed!
2007-07-02 04:12:22 · update #1
If you have not had sex then you are still a virgin.
2007-07-02 04:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by ηárdiη 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still a virgin unless you have sexual intercourse, which a man puts his penis in your vagina.
This usually breaks the hymen, a very thin layer of skin on the outside of the vagina. When the hymen breaks, there is some bleeding, and a stretching sensation, maybe a little bit of pain. You can break your hymen other ways to, doing splits, cartwheels, and putting in a tampon. If your hymen is broken you are still a virgin.
I actually commend you for being a virgin at 25. You are probably waiting for marrige, right? This is good, and this way you will not regret your first time because it is with someone you truly love and care about. This way you can say on your honeymoon "Hey, I love you so much, I have a very special gift to give you. It is something I have saved for you all my life." and then you can give him your virginity. Doesnt that sound great?? Plus, your guy will love you enough to go as hard or as slow and soft, and as you want him to, and you cant be embarrassed. It could turn out he is a virgin too!
I would only tell your best friend, unless she tells secrets. If not, I would only tell your husband when you two are thinking about having sex for the first time.
God that was a lot to write. But its all worth it. I hope this helps a lot!!!!!! And good luck!!
2007-07-02 11:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
K the only wway you can lose your virginity is if you have sex. And like I know you will be worried about telling a guy that you have never done it before but unless he asks dont tell him. And maybe you will be afraid of bleeding but dont be because some people dont bleed. When I had sex for the first time I didnt and never have! If I were you I would wait though untill you are in a relationship with someone you trust and then you will be able to tell them you are a virgin and then you can feel more comfortable during sex. Yes you would be better off waiting another while untill you find someone you trust it would be better for you.
2007-07-02 11:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ღOoohhlala♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still a virgin if you have not had sex. As for bleeding, it depends on the girl. You may have already broken your hymen before, and some girls are born without them. You are still a virgin even if you do not bleed the first time you have sex. You don't have to tell a guy if you don't want to.
2007-07-02 11:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 and I'm still a virgin although I'm thinking about losing it. Don't tell anyone that you don't really care about. I ask my friends all the time about how they lost theirs and they say it's not that good the first few times but I guess if you love someone things might be different. But the most important thing is that make sure it's something you want and you have to relax so it won't hurt as much so I've been told.
2007-07-02 11:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by college gurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, calm down you sound really stressed. the moment will come and if the guy is the right one then he will understand that you are a virgin. a virgin is someone who has not had any sexual intercourse. some people dont even bleed the first time so if you do its only going to be a little bit.
2007-07-02 11:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a virgin if you've never had sex. When you do have sex you shouldn't really bleed. You need to find a man who will be gentle with you as you seem to only have had a rough sexual encounter before.
2007-07-02 11:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Nexus6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have never had sexual intercourse with a man, you're a virgin. If that's the case, do yourself a favor and save it for marriage. Trust me on this one -- you'll be sorry if you don't. Can't tell you how many women I've heard say they wished they had saved themselves for marriage. P.S.: The first time you have sex there will be some bleeding and a little pain at first, but it won't be bad (at least that's what I've heard).
2007-07-02 11:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
wAre you a virgin at 25, most girls have lost their virginity if you define virginity as has your hymen been broken, if you use tampons when in your menstrual cycle almost certainly it has otherwise you could not insert a tampon.
If you are unsure you could try inserting one of your own fingers in to your vagina using KY lubricant you would have complete control of what you do and if it was painful you could then stop or proceed as you wish.
If you are really worried got to your local family planning clinic and either see a lady doctor or nurse then they Will be able to advise you.
2007-07-02 16:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by john h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whithout looking in your vagina , ı can not tell you , if you are virgin or not. Because you can lose it not only by sex.
forexample ; by the gymnastic, by all kind of sportive branches. Also if you v fingered your self hardly or with some enstruments then you can loose it too. But it is better , if you go to a Doctor to be sure!
2007-07-02 14:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by catalin_64 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋