I have this Male Coworker, Whose a great Friend of mine. We are both Christian and he has been helping me out with rides to work because my car broke down and in the mean while he has been helping me... Well This Lady at work found out and she started spreading rumors about me and him... I commented to her about a trip I was talking with my church and she knew That my friend was going... Now she a couple of my coworkers that I'm sleeping with the guy and that I am going out with him when I told her that we were just friends and not involved at all... I wouldnt really care if i wasnt Chrisitian But this ruins my Testimony.. .What should I do? Should I talk to a supervisor or confront her???
2007-07-02 03:43:57 · 11 answers · asked by leenystar2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Rumors could really get on the nerves sometimes, especially nasty ones that attack your virtue. But the good thing about it, honey, is that it dies a natural death. Yes, if there is no truth about it, it will go away on its own.
Confronting her will only make her mad to churn up another rumor. So don't bother. Since you are a Christian, try praying for her.
Hold your ground, keep your head up high. You're not guilty of anything, so keep your bearing.
2007-07-02 03:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jojo Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the rumors. You are supposed to be an adult, so what would come of you talking to a supervisor other than she thinking you are immature and over reacting. And should you confront the person spreading the rumors, it will only add more fuel to her fire, as she knows she has gotten to you. In the future, don't discuss your personal life with co workers. That is how this all got started.
2007-07-02 03:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. being that you're Christian, I can't give you the answer that I'd give someone else.
BUT
You will always have someone who doesn't believe something you say. People just care too much about other people's business when they have no life. If you and your gentleman friend are indeed just friends, you have nothing to prove to her and anyone else. You already know the only person you have to answer to.
Smile
2007-07-02 03:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by J j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UGHH....this happined to me before and it was so sad because she was the one sleeping wit a coworker upstairs in the storage room!!! if she is higher than u dont even try cuz when i did ...everyone higher than me accused me too depends on the people really i got so pissed off at all of em espically cuz my coworker friend was married ...i ended up quitting
2007-07-02 03:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by no shame in my game 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be upfront and honest and let her know that you dont appreciate the small talk. tell her, you dont have to explain yourself to her, but your going to do so anyways, and mention the issue with your car. also, talk with your boss/manager or supervisor, this way if it can be handled seriously. if she doesnt stop, keep bringing it up to your supervisor and things will get to the point where he will give her an ultamatum : trash talking OR getting fired.
2007-07-02 03:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know who cares if people spread rumers about you as long as you know they're not true thats all that matters! shes probably just testing you to see how you'll react since you're a christian:) i had 3 rumers about me going around at school and they all came back to me and i just laughed cause i knew it wasn't true.well i hope that they stop for you if you ignore it they will eventually go away :)
2007-07-02 03:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by jade727 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make rumours about her? Lol joking!
Maybe tell people rumours arnt true I mean she should grow up ... Why dont you date him? Then the rumours will be true and she will get confused? Lol
I know my advice is not good but I am trying to help
Good luck
xxx
2007-07-02 03:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it particularly is incredibly extraordinary, even for me and that i regularly like E-Drama. communicate approximately going out of ways. they have no top to assert you haven't any longer any existence while they're doing that **** lol
2016-11-07 22:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, I would not even hesitate. I would be chomping at the bit to have a 'word' with this co-worker.
2007-07-02 03:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by getusedtoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care what others think? If you know the truth, you know that God knows the truth, so why care about other people?
2007-07-02 03:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by drruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋