I would love to know how some girls get guys just like that. I mean I do get them,but they are not excatlly the best looking guys around. I am pretty.......some guys even hit on me or even call me beautiful. Its just that they never ask me out....I just hope they aren't afraid to. I am kinda myself.......I do not want to be alone for the rest of my life. I just want to know how I can make them feel less pressured. Thanks for reading this.
2007-07-02 03:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Just try to be as real and as friendly with them (without being gushy) as you can. You said that you're pretty -- is it possible that guys see you as a little vain or a little stuck-up? If you project an attitude that certain guys aren't good enough for you, the guys will pick up on that and avoid you like the plague. And remember two things: (1) Physical beauty fades, and (2) Many of the better looking guys are players. So if you're worried about being alone for the rest of your life, look for a guy that has the things that really matter -- morals, respect, common interests (READ: Looks and money should not be the two top criteria on your list).
2007-07-02 03:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to go out with a guy then ask him. How much simpler could it be? How old are you? If you're under 40 why are you worrying about being alone for the rest of your life? Just because you find a guy doesn't mean he's going to marry you. And even if he does marry you, you have a 50% chance of not staying married. I'm not saying that to make you feel bad. I'm saying it so you can learn to be comfortable with yourself and so that you don't feel like you need a man all the time. As if you define yourself by whether you have a man or not or how good looking the man is that you are with.
2007-07-02 10:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Peter D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to enhance your looks.
Since you are already easy on the eyes, improve your looks with the right makeup, hairstyle and keep your breath constantly fresh. Smell feminine and send out the messages that you are available.
But remember, do not settle.
By that I mean, if a guy isn't your time, keep the chit chat to the minimal.
This way, you don't appear to be attached and you do not send out the wrong message to the wrong guy.
If there is a guy you like, stick around but don't be irritating.
Be interesting and interested.
You'll find your Prince Charming soon.
Chin up girlfriend.
2007-07-02 10:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Magma H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all never stop being yourself. Just stand up strait when you walk act confident smile when a guy says something to you and put yourself out there(go to parties or other activities with allot of people) and do not be afraid of making a fool of yourself. (such as jumping in a pool w/all your close on) I hope all of this helps!
2007-07-02 10:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam sure you are pretty dear, but i expect you heard it before, but just be yourself. if you want a guy to ask you out, then you have to get them to ask you out. hows your personality?, i mean guys like a girl to have a nice personality. being nice looking isnt all there is to it, ask some of your girl friends to set you up with a nice guy, then who knows, you two might just hit it off.
2007-07-02 10:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
;-{} Was it REALLY nec`es-sary to place Y O U RrRr OPINION here in the way that you did? lol that hints to me or OTHER r readers possibly that you want a certain someone !?! Or SOMEBODIES to see this ?.--
2007-07-09 12:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your just going to have to be brave and when you spot a nice looking one, make up and act like say your lost or something and ask for direction. If you even braver, you'll go up to him and ask him about himself.
2007-07-02 10:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move
2007-07-04 00:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋