ok well durring foreplay he does a WONDERFUL job at pleasing me, but whenever i go to please him, i dont really know what to do. i asked him about a b l o w j o b (sorry itll senser it out) and he wasnt really turned on by the fact he would be kissing the mouth that sucked his penis (i guess cause hes never had it done) but any time i try to do a hand job he really doesnt seem to be enjoying it, he never really communicates to me about it. but he still has a HIGH sex drive, and he loves sex and is wonderful at it. i just dont know what i can do to better please him. i feel like part of it is my fault seeing as i dont really know what to do. i love him so much, and he does such a excellent job of pleasuring me i just want to do the same for him. but i dont know what to do. ive ask him what i should do and he just said i dont know. but it makes me feel really bad. any help or suggestions would be nice. what do you girls do? what do you guys like?
2007-07-02 03:15:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Just relax and go with the flow. If he does not tell you what he would like watch for his body language. And keep in mind practice make perfect and if you both love each other it will all fall into place.
2007-07-02 03:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by emtd65 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See if he will atleast try to let you go down on him. I bet if he let you then he would love it and get over that "kissing a mouth that just went down on him" thing. Or if not then maybe during sex you could just be on top and be totally in control and please him. Hope it works. Good luck!
2007-07-02 03:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all>>as I seen up top>> quit blaming yourself..you have done nothing..ask him if he likes oral sex or what..communication...you can also search on the internet>>Oral sex techniques
2007-07-02 03:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by pcbeachrat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always just ask him. Tell him that you want to please him, and ask him what he would like you to do. (Chances are he would know the answer to this better than anyone here on Y!)
2007-07-02 03:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go slowly and kiss his neck and stuff like that.... or u can just torture him by standing nude, and moving around, some ppl like it maybe he will too...
2007-07-02 10:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail me if you want to chat about it in more detail
2007-07-02 09:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
google it.
2007-07-02 03:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by hot_pink_sunsets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋