2007-07-02 01:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I feel a bit embarrassed, and at times, try to act like it's not happening, as if I were mistaken, but at the same time, struggle with the reality that just because I want something to be a certain way, does not make it so.
2007-07-02 01:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
If someone rejects me I often get irritated because I am a bit bossy but really I don't get mad in a way and so I live with it but if someone has rejected you I advise thet you go and speak to the person though it is pretty embarrasing but if you have been rejected on something I don't think nagging or begging the other person or thing is going to help because they get irritated too that is why you must impress that person, show what you really are or show them without speaking that if they don't reject you something very good is going to happen. Well, that's it.
2007-07-02 03:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the start I am hurt. A rejection has got a reason how I present myself to the other person/s. I try to find out what brought the negativity on, accept it and try to change or make it better the next time. That is life, life is a lesson without end.
2007-07-06 01:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by zabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediate reaction... sad. But you must take into consideration the other person's point of view too. Every individual has their own life to lead... its a god-given right. Get over it and go forward... don't stay dejected... Acceptance & rejection is a part of everyone's life... A person does not get everything he desires even if he is the richest person on this planet. Do not build any unwanted feelings of negativity...
2007-07-02 02:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by arun_vn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it ever happens, I'll let you know. Kidding. I think rejection is a part of life that if we don't experience, we'll never appreciate acceptance. I like the idea of plotting sweet, sweet revenge, as someone else said, and yes, that works in the short term, but it's not really all that effective long-term. I'd have to say that it's a matter of taking it in and then moving on.
2007-07-02 07:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by teeleecee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only when you approve or validate any external rejection it becomes true, otherwise it is only an individual exercising their personal choice, and they are entitled to do so.
External rejection become important only when we are looking for external approval, while dissapproving of ourselves internally.
So according to the law of attraction, that is why we then start attracting more and more external diapprovals, as a reflection of our inner treatment.
People or the world only treat us the way we treat ourselves internally. It is a mirror after all.
Things start changing when we start approving of ourselves, and rather respecting ourselves and our choices.
Life changes, when we do.
2007-07-02 03:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection could let you down in the dumps. But it’s all right! It’s a momentary feeling. Being rejected doesn’t mean you aren’t loved.
Accept it with a smile!
2007-07-02 04:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Agnes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not rejecting me are you? Tell me you're not rejecting me. Why else would someone ask how I dealt with rejection? Crap, what did I do this time? Why are you rejecting me? Wait... was that a hypothetical question?
2007-07-06 00:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Davis Wylde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Philosophically -
"React with LOVE to every thing. "
Apply this on yourself as an 24 hour test and you will see the difference, And it will save me a lot of typing.
Regards
2007-07-03 02:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by SA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With pity.
Anyone who rejects me is losing out on the best. Sorry, but I actually do feel that way.
2007-07-02 02:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋