He come on to me when she isn't around & call me up at night.I don't like him and told him that I'm dating to stop him.I didn't flirt with him in anyway and am a loyal friend,yet my best friend dislikes me.She is suspicious and our friendship is strained.My other friends knows the truth because I had told them everything & showed them the smses he send & they had witnessed it themselves.I couldn't take it anymore & want to reveal the truth & exposed him.He is a hypocrite, making a big show making out with her, infront of me & my group of girlfriends whenever we go out together,no matter where we are.He blame it on her,that he just do that to satisfy her & he's her punching bag.Whereas,my best friend is crazy in love with him.Everyday & everywhere she goes out with him.She doesn't like talking about other boys,saying she already had one.Everything she spoke is of him.How could she be so blind?Should I tell her straight or wait for her to find out herself?And if I tell her, how to do it?
2007-07-02 01:35:45 · 12 answers · asked by Peppermintchoc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He must had gotten my no. from her phone as before, he mostly pick up the phone whenever I call her-I didn't know she was out with him that time. And when I mention he put on a big show, it doesn't mean I had an interest in him, it means it disgusted me & my friends that he's a cheater. Like in the videoclip: Stranger-Hillary Duff, I dedicate to her...
2007-07-02 02:16:50 · update #1
tell her, and make her realized how stupid she was...
2007-07-09 16:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by dark angel 16 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have got to tell her the truth. Even if it hurts her she will thank you in the end. B/c if she just finds out on her own it will make you seem like you were keeping things from her. And she will be even more upset. She's your best friend right.... She'll understand.
2007-07-10 08:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kaila H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did he get your phone number and why? It appears that you may have some type of interest in him - you mention the big show that he puts on in front of you when he is with her. By telling your friends, did you expect them to tell her? Tell her straight up in front of him. If you don't have the balls for that, invite her over and when he calls put her on the phone to listen to what he is saying.
2007-07-02 08:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by gdaniel_98 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her everything NOW and bring the rest of your friends that know about this as support ,but done just attack her with the proof let her know you guys are doing this not to hurt her but because you love her and don't want him to hurt her
2007-07-08 16:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by thothx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell my friend the truth. I wouldn't be abrupt, but I'd try to ease into the conversation...Probably when he wasn't around
2007-07-09 22:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by kitten_luver_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends come before guys. Tell your friend whats been happening immeditaly.
2007-07-07 17:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by music_is_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very difficult-the key was to let her know in the very beginning when it was just little stuff-by letting others know what is going on-it gets back to her-sometimes in twisted ways-making you look like the bad person.
She is blinded and if what he says has any truth in it-she is abusing him-or else he is lying about this to cheat on her. I would stop discussing the issue with others, and if he writes anything to you -dont read it just save it for the time when she questions you-as he will move on to other targets and you wont be in the middle of the mess
-show her my words too.
this is what helped me in life to seek truth and how to reveal it too=this is what helped me learn my lessons=the door of your heart-to be your best friend
this helped me=true love-help from above =it will work the door to your heart=Revelation 1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 and chapter 3:19&20 I love you and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sin and be your friend, when you ask me in." Jesus words =think of the future too
when its real and in honor-called life and if you are not married for marriage for the future and living in honor till then. "In marriage the bed is undefiled, but the others will be judged." Hebrews 13 in that chapter is also the promise once we let Jesus into our heart "I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee." verse 5
this is what got me self control=I have had the best of everything in life (I thought) till I came to Jesus and learned the joy of life, in salvation and renewal, praying for you, -and I am just a messenger in Jesus amazing grace (John 3rd chapter) repented of my sins, even one lie and let Jesus in to help and be my friend-and if you wont listen to Jesus-please understand there is nothing I can do to help thee prince. it sure worked for me, =Jesus is the one to comfort you and to give you help to commit in a relationship, in Jesus amazing grace, John 3rd chapter repented of my sins,even one lie, and let Jesus in to be my friend, amen.
praying for you, your girl friend and this guy, and the best, David
2007-07-02 08:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how it is.. Your friends means more then anything.. wouldnt you want you want you friend to tell you if that **** was going on behind your back?.. Tell her. Plain and simple.
2007-07-02 08:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by kazapim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smack the crap out of him and tell him no. he should get the point. your friend will have to live and learn this one out.
2007-07-02 08:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER EVERYTHING AND BE HONEST....show that you have friends around the world that you have consulted. is that okey
2007-07-10 08:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by noy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him and tell him if he doesnt tell her that you will. then stay away from him and see if your friend says anything. if she doesnt say anything in about a week, i suggest you tell her.
2007-07-09 19:48:48 · answer #11 · answered by Lexie : ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋