How old were you then?
How dod you get iver it and gained self confidence?
2007-07-02 00:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
When my ex-lady dumped me(civil and nice like)
this was 3 months ago
I realized i depended on her too much for happiness and i started focusing on myself more and what i want out of life!
2007-07-02 00:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by tigittytigitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my first wife of fifteen years divorced me and never told me why. I lost my family, my home, my car, my confidence was utterly destroyed. We had two great kids, a nice house, good jobs and all else was good too I thought.
So I found myself thinking I might be sexually inadequate, drank too much, verbally abusive perhaps, I simply could not get a straight answer from her but everything I suggested she said was not the problem. I was pushing fourty then and it took over ten years for me to discover myself and believe in myself again. It very nearly destroyed me as I spent all my time trying to figure out what was wrong with me. I was reclusive and depressed almost all the time. Take heart that the ten years was the total time needed but the healing was incremental with some improvement in attitude each of the ten until I finally emerged satisfied, content and proud of who I am.
2007-07-02 01:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Robert P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14 and my girlfriend broke up with me. 5 months later I talked with her for the first time since and I asked her to lunch. She was busy but we could go some other time. After we parted and she couldn't see me any more, I jumped in the air, did a dance and didn't even mind that I spilled Dippin' Dots on my favorite shirt.
2007-07-02 00:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 16 now and still have low self confidence. Probably at its lowest when I was about 10.
2007-07-02 01:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Trina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually about 1 month after I found out I was geting divorced and for aquite awhile afterwards I had absolutely zero self confidence or self-worth. It was horrible.
I was 38 then.. It was absolutely one of the worst times in my life.
I finally went and saw someone for help because I had gotten to the point where I just didn't care anymore.
2007-07-02 00:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
When I was with my ex husband. He totally controlled me, put me down, didn't let me make any decisions, and alienated me from friends and family. It's a long story. However, I am doing much, much better now. I am coming to terms with the fact, that I let it happen. I should have left. Fear and stupidity just took over. It was a lesson well learned.
2007-07-02 02:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ann S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a teenager. I had no confidence at all. I gained it through knowing myself better.
2007-07-02 00:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Meeya 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This morning. My self confidence ebbs and flows for no apparent reason.
2007-07-02 00:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my teen years I had low self esteem but it wasn't until after I got married that I felt like **** and felt worthless.
sad but true.
2007-07-02 02:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...when i fell out with my best friend....i ended up walking around school pointlessly....but then i found a fiend who i had known before---she is now my best m8 and im as confident as ever!!!
2007-07-02 00:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by flipin_mentalzar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋