I am 21 and have liked a guy since my days at highschool, almost 10 years. He liked me too. We are now dating and have been for four years! He is 21 also. I know he is the one and could not imagine klife without him, although a life with him will be very hard as I am muslim, my parents and family (family of 8) will not accept. I am teh middle girl and my two older sisters are married to muslim men - one is an asshole, the other is great. My dad loves me as his favourite but would never accept a catholic guy as my partner let alone future husband. I am stuck in the middle and my boyfriend onyl wants whats best so he suggests to let me go but I don't think this will be the easy option as I will suffer more. I am only happy when I am with him or think of him. My family will never accept nor will my community. My mum found out and tried to get us to break up cos she knows it will make my dad angry and sick. I cant please them and lose the love of my life??????
2007-07-02 00:05:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we got together very young and both thought we would date for a few months and then it would be over - we did not know it would be love.
2007-07-04 00:50:56 · update #1
hmmm good luck with that i dated a Muslim girl once her dad went bonkers he never accepted her so she moved out and till this day he will not speak to her or i don't think well we broke up so i am not sure but she made he choices in life now she has to live with them...but the truth is if you love him love him don't let dad stop you i mean he is never going to change and you know that older people wont for anyone especially Muslim men and you know that they are stubborn and set in their ways and plus they think they are always right so uhmm don't expect him to like anyone but who he wants for you so you choose your bf or dad
i don't recommend moving out but i mean she is doing fine i guess like i said it was her choice though i totally didn't see it coming she said she felt trapped by him and all but well the point is just be careful ok i been there and it can get pretty bad
2007-07-02 00:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie Monster!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
regrettably in many places cultural selections gets mixed up with non secular info. In Islam there isn't any theory-approximately "race". In Islam we are all equivalent no rely if we are Arab or Non-Arab, white or black, tall or short, Pakistani or Indian, American or Korean, as long as we have faith in a single God and His Messengers we are all equivalent. human beings doing any subject otherwise is relatively incorrect especially father and mom getting freaked out and putting a accountable holiday on their little ones using fact their little ones do no longer desire to marry the guy they like. No such theory substitute into ever presented in Islam.
2016-11-07 22:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This not a situation which has developed overnight.Both of you knew the hurdles in this relationship but may have thought that some thing will turn out and help to sort out the issue.well,that hasn't happened.One way could be the conversion of your bf to Islam as it would satisfy your family.He may later reconvert to Christianity,Being a liberal religion,Christianity should have no objection to it.You see,what I am trying to say is that in this tricky situation some out of the way or extraordinary steps have the inly chances of succeeding .Take your pick.
2007-07-02 00:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋