to be in a room full of people yet feel totally alone?
2007-06-30 20:11:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
are you molly?
2007-06-30 20:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by ljane a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling alone is a matter of choice,but feeling lonely and aloof is a condition which needs consideration. Even the most avid social people feel lonely at times in a gathering.Next time,do a bit of home work before hand to find the type of people likely to attend,the theme of the get together,identify common friends if any,try and join a sub group or two or three people and go with them ,dress appropriately and be ready to listen more than talking,be sure to cultivate one or two contacts and follow them up after wards to just say a hello or thanks.Remember,humans are social animals and as good animals we should be adept at socializing.You have it in you and can do it.So go ahead and accomplish it.Rreally very easy.
2007-07-01 09:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really that you feel "alone" but "disconnected" from the otheres present. Having nothing in common, or not wanting to be there, the prescense of the other people doesn't have as much of an impact. It's a lack of interaction and stimulation.
2007-07-01 03:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in your state of mind. I have done the sameI thing. It is similar to when you isolate yourself from pain. You may be hiding from shyness or some unkown fear. Try just talking to one person at the event and soon you will mingle and forget about your own self and enjoy the other people
2007-07-01 03:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
also becuase, You may have a problem, concern, missing something and... that has emotionally captured you and dont let you to be with others even if you are in a room with full of friends.
2007-07-01 03:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by freeman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only possible even it is true.this world have so billion person we have so many contact friends and relatives but we all are alone even when we are with our friends and only very sensitive person can feel it others who are so common people they cant feel this aloneness.so you are one from very few introvert people .........
2007-07-01 05:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by A friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is if you have nothing in common with the other people.
2007-07-01 03:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by JAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of psychological barriers you hide your true self from these people. you don't know them it is scary sometimes.
2007-07-01 03:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u dont feel like u fit in ...
dont like the people there
they dont like u
no ones talking to u
your are too shy
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2007-07-01 03:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are deppressed sister..
2007-07-01 03:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋