He is perfect in my eyes but to the world he is far from it. I love him so much. My best friend use to be really close with him then he moved away. Julie[my best friend] introduced me to him. I always talk to him everyday for HOURS AND HOURS. But I have never met him. I tell him EVERYTHING. Things no one else knows. and he tells me things back. He says he loves me back and I can tell he does.VERY much. He would die for me but that brings up more problems. Hes very suicidal and depressed and Im truely the best thing in his life. I have stopped him from killing himself many times. A lot of this is because of all the stress he has. His dad is really abusive and that makes me sad. He is HIGHLY addictive to drugs and he is really tied up in them. He is also a HUGE dealer which I hate. He has tried to stop many times for me but each time he fails. Idk what I would do if I lost him. He means so much to me. He makes me feel a way no one else has even gotten close to. I love him.idk what to do!
2007-06-30 18:55:37 · 4 answers · asked by emma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah. He is in such a dangerous situation too. see...this is all happening in Atlanta so you know theres guns being pulled on him all the time. He gets threats and stuff almost everyday. and this all scares me to death. He knows that he isn't good for me too. He tells me everyday that I need to find a really good guy that will always be there for me and take care of me. He says that he KNOWS that he is going to go to jail sooner or later..and he has accepted that. Which I just don't get how he can just say oh well to this. I know deep inside that it hurts him. and it hurts me alot too. I just wish that he could get better. what am I suppose to do? should I just tell him he can't be with me untill he gets his life together? If I do that Im afraid he will kill himself...Im the only thing keeping him alive. the only thing that he can trust and love in his life. and Im just scared to death about that.
2007-06-30 20:04:28 · update #1
He is perfect in my eyes but to the world he is far from it. I love him so much. My best friend use to be really close with him then he moved away. Julie[my best friend] introduced me to him. I always talk to him everyday for HOURS AND HOURS. But I have never met him. I tell him EVERYTHING. Things no one else knows. and he tells me things back. He says he loves me back and I can tell he does.VERY much. He would die for me but that brings up more problems. Hes very suicidal and depressed and Im truely the best thing in his life. I have stopped him from killing himself many times. A lot of this is because of all the stress he has. His dad is really abusive and that makes me sad. He is HIGHLY addictive to drugs and he is really tied up in them. He is also a HUGE dealer which I hate. He has tried to stop many times for me but each time he fails. Idk what I would do if I lost him. He means so much to me. He makes me feel a way no one else has even gotten close to. I love him.idk what to do!
2007-07-02 04:40:00 · update #2
You have two options:
You are certifiable, or
You have an excellent career ahead of you as a novelist.
d
2007-07-08 13:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a good risk right now....(which doesn't mean it will always be that way, but it is definitely that way for now). First issue: his mental status makes him unstable. This may be a result of his drug use or his drug use may be the way he copes with his depression; either way, that's an explosive combination which demands immediate help....(professional help). Next is his occupation: it's just a matter of time before he's busted, and God forbid you're with him when that happens, because that will be a nightmare. On top of the legal problems, there are issues with his clientele and rival dealers (just the price of doing business) which also make this an unsavory choice of things to get involved with. He may want to stop for you but he can't. He can only stop for himself, and that's a fact...all the wishing in the world won't change that reality, so I would advise against getting deeper involved with this guy until he's been able to make some MAJOR lifestyle changes...and until he's demonstrated a track record of successful sobriety for at least a year. I know this is hard to hear, but it's vital that you heed my warning on this, or you can easily be dragged down into someone else's mess in a serious way. Good luck to you.
2007-07-01 02:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....this sounds like a complicated scenario. and if it involves suicide and killing, someone should know about this...
2007-07-08 19:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by nisee♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away very fast and do not come back that is my answer to you.
2007-07-07 15:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋