i'm a healthy 34 yr old man. when i have sex with someone i'm comfortable with/my girlfriend, i have no problem getting an erection.at all. i feel confident about my penis and body. BUT. when i randomly sleep with someone (like i tried last night and i was very attracted to her) i cannot get an erection!! i'm very sexual and a horny man. what is happening to me?? i try everything, but it just doesnt work. my friends do not have this issue. why can they perform in the same situation?
2007-06-30 18:29:21 · 10 answers · asked by ducaticanine 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Guilt
2007-06-30 18:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Justin C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is either guilt for being like that or your body just isn't attracted to her.your mind might be saying your attracted to her but you penis is saying "i don't wanna touch that"lol.it's your body. your eyes may be attracted to her but your body isn't.and i hope your using a condom with random sex.you wouldn't know that last girl you did may have had a std.cause some std's do that.or you are stressed about having random sex.you should settle for just one partner.
2007-06-30 19:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well did it ever think about How it is going to feel to know you just cheated on your girlfriend i feel bad for you even your dick didnt want to get happy with someone eles! God for bid! ever heard of unfaithfulness?! your dick loves being with ur gf and loves her! guess your stupid brain doesnt.. get help you cheating jerk! i hope she dumps you because you shouldnt be like that! and you know what your friends may not love anyone so they dont have a problem but i guess ur little man loves ur gf but u dont so he isnt gonna get happy!
2007-06-30 18:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by sk8tergurl1405 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its your shame you are cheating on your girlfriend, stop doing that, one woman should be enough for a man, and you are exposing her to diseases by doing this, idiot. at least you have some feelings about it that slow you down, the other animals you know have no morals at all, they just do it like dogs in the street.
2007-06-30 20:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that random sex is too stressful for you. I'd suggest having a regular sex partner.
2007-06-30 19:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Richard B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a guilt thing ....i used to get it when i was a dirty low life that cheated......but keep trying you can get over the guilt ....i did
2007-06-30 22:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by massdebater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
serves you right for being a cheat
2007-06-30 18:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jackal could have really helped you.
2007-07-01 15:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by katieskies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know been losing feelings down there for awhile
2007-06-30 19:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
moron!!!
2007-06-30 20:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋