Why do I hurt so many people?

Question

Why do I hurt so many people? Whether intentionally or not intentionally I feel like I always hurt a lot of people? A while ago somebody mentioned in my horoscope that I will and have hurt a lot of people... Is this true? Can you look at my horoscope?

Birth Date : 29/10/1981 , Time: 13:30:00
Longitude : 072'W50"
Latitude : 41'N43"
Time: Standard time
Time Zone: 5 Hours West

Place of Birth: Farmington , Connecticut USA
Nearest City: Hartford, Connecticut USA

NOTE: The TIME ZONE is 5 HOURS WEST.

Any suggestions, remedies?

Answer 1

Oh boy! You were born on the 29 th. I was born on the 29th also with scorpio moon. You are dealing with issues of abandonment and rejection that stems from a past life. You may not realise this but you have brought with you all this from a former life where you were tortured. Now it's affecting your behavior and attitude. Without realising it you can attack people out protection of yourself. You do not trust people and you are very suspicious by nature. Being born on the 29th day of any month brings heavy karma from past to deal with in this life. Be careful of your thoughts because without knowing you can hurt people by simply thinking a negative thought about them. You have a very strong ability to manifest all of your thoughts for good or bad so be careful. If you would like more info, then you can email me. Blessings!!!

Answer 2

Bless astro.com - it calculates the time zone for you. And yes, it is 5 hours west.

I would say your rising is Aquarius (well, I wouldn't just say it - it simply is Aquarius!). Uranus - Aquarius' ruler - is also conjunct to your moon in Scorpio. Both objects are in the 9th house. Higher learning. You have an emotional need for freedom and you can't stay in one place for too long.

I've noticed that such behaviour might hurt other people who have certain expectations of you which you can't fulfill. That's when you hurt people unintentionally - that's not your fault, it's the way you are. You live for yourself and not for someone else.

Also you tend to do your own thing. Whatever may come your way. That would be the Scorpio influence in your chart, which is bigger than just the Sun and the Moon. Only the sun and the moon are actually in Scorpio, but pluto, jupiter, mercury and saturn are all in the 8th house, along with the sun. This many objects in that house usually makes for a quite violent person, or someone with a temper.

Then also, there is that mars in the 7th house - and I assume that is what those astrologers picked up on. 7th house is how you are towards the outside world (the 1st is how the outside world sees you). Mars is a dangerous planet. It stands for energy, and you direct it towards others.


That's what I think anyway...

As for suggestions - be yourself. If you intentionally hurt people, try to avoid it. If you do it unintentionally, then it's not your fault.

Answer 3

i belive u have asked on this site some time back ?
from the data long--72-41 ---lati--41-47
born on thurs day
asc-capricon--rasi--scorpio birth star--Anuuradha-1
lagna since - Sravana-4 the nature of star
being-the influence of Kalasarpa yoga 8th mars mer with sat etc r some reasons.

the remidies on Vedic astrology .if u can

contact seperately.

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Answer 4

well from the looks of things your a Scorpio and to tell you the truth before i even read your D.O.B i pegged ya 4 one. First of all let me apologize all you Scorpions out there because i know this will sound bad but hear goes.. In astrology Scorpios tend to be hard to get along with because most of them cannot over come there sign once they do they are very wonderful people they can think on a level most other signs cannot ,and they can be very good psychic and healers. but over coming the Scorpions negative aspects can be very hard, to say the least and it sound like you know first hand what I'm talking about. some of the negative traits for Scorpio can be secrecy, most hate anyone knowing too much about them ( bad for relationships)they can have such a sex drive that there partners can't keep up, they can be very possesive and tend to have a very hard time forgiving. Now there is also another thing that is causing you trouble your a Saggitarius moon and Sagittarius love there freedom so you probably find it very hard to commit (to just one person). i don't know your rising because it would take alittle more researching but off the top of my head I would guess virgo and if i'm right you could be a bit of a perfectionist , i'm a virgo rising too and with my other signs( taurus and pisces ) it keeps me in line but with a Scorpio Sagittarius it could cause you even more harm. I know this all sounds bad and i'm sorry for that but you did ask
In everyones birth chart there are ways to over come these things but it would take all night to tell you everything and i'd run out of room on this sight

Answer 5

Just being Scorpio should tell you why


Negative
* Self-destructive
* Ruthless
* Overbearing
* Suspicious
* Jealous
* Possessive
* Dangerous
* Quick-tempered
* Obsinate
* Moody
* Sadistic
* Insulting
* Secretive
* Intolerant
* Cunning
* Vindictive

I think you should just work on your Ego it can be your best friend however it can also be your worst enemy once you get it under control things should settle down

If you were to think of your Sun sign as your soul -- your inner personality and potential -- and your Moon sign as your heart -- your emotional core -- then you could say that your Rising sign -- or ascendant -- is your physical self or the face you present to the world.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 6

Okay, I don't know many Scorpios, but one I know was around your birthday. Scorpios are Water Signs. Very emotionally motivated. However, they are defensive and don't want to be hurt. When Scorpio feels insecure, unloved, or at all threatened by the people around them, Scorpio gets out their tails and start stinging!!!! Yeah, my Scorpio friend did that to me. Cost me a relationship, potentially. It's their way of protecting their emotions from getting hurt! So if you notice this pattern, don't be afraid to let those emotions out. Someone will totally understand how you are feeling. And remind yourself of those hurtful feelings that you're having everyone else suffer through. And maybe get away from these people for a bit and let yourself cool down. If all else fails, Scorpios are notoriously passionate in the bedroom. Save all your energy for that! Good luck!!!

Answer 7

Yes, you have a natural tendency to hurt people.

Reason :- You have an empty mind, though outwardly, it seems to be full of interesting thoughts. Empty mind is devil's workshop.

Remedies :-

(1) Work hard without bothering for rewards;
(2) Help others without any motivation;
(3) Keep the mind busy in something. By "something", here I do not imply negative things such as stealing, drinking wine, trying to harm someone, etc. Engage the mind in positive things as far as possible.
(4) Take up a job in the Entertainment industry such as cinema, music, etc.

Answer 8

I'd suppose that the answer may be in your Scorpio moon.We know that Scorpios can be very blunt, sarcastic,and especially when their feelings are hurt, say very nasty things.Maybe these are the reasons people get so hurt by you.
As another thought ,though I am an astrologer,I wouldn't so desperately look to my chart for answers to such questions all the time.Sometimes it's just good to look at yourself.

Answer 9

You have both Sun and Moon in Scorpio. I think its mainly the Moon in Scorpio. You can be painfully blunt, more than likely. This is what I am guessing could hurt people's feelings. It is hard to go against a person's natural tendancies, but just try to keep this in mind.

Go to alabe.com for a basic chart. This should help explain a lot to you.

Answer 10

If I'm not mistaking it you are a LIBRA, and knowing that libra is the scale, is always a positive scale and a negative one, definetely as you said that you had hurt so many, your scale is totally inclined to the negative side, things to do, my personal experience in all cases related to the negative force: I am a leo and I do have bad temper, and a lot of negatives stuff, through the years, I just do self annalysis, and I am always getting rid of the bad stuff like I said annalyzing myself, and others, and just making sure, that I won't do it again, trust me. ITS BEEN WORKING FOR ME FOR SO MANY YEARS.