Sorry if you saw this in singles, but wondered about the maturity of the group in general.. (not those who answered). Just recently divorced, and wondering if there is hope for me somewhere… NOT looking to meet a guy online, but asking a general question of you men… would you consider dating someone like me (i.e. is there hope?)
Good – I’m attractive – long blonde hair (mid-back), blue, fair complexion, not skinny, but not plump.. LOL.. 30, told I have a smile that lights up the world and love to flash it often.. love life, look at bright side of life, absolutely content in the garden watching butterflies, listening to wind in the trees, hikes, camping, am Native American, though I don’t appear so, but love my culture – pow wow’s, gatherings, etc. Do believe in God and talk with him daily, but do not attend church often, great cook, elementary school teacher, provide for myself = have a home and a nice car, love my independence. Tend to be a bit wild in bed, open minded,
2007-06-30 17:26:08 · 13 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and thoroughly enjoy making my guy out of his mind (in bed).
Not so good ? I have a serious history (not with guys- just life in general) – don’t necessarily need to share it, but you would definitely be surprised.. Have a tight family that I don’t see that often, but Mom comes to visit 1/mo. Some skeletons in family closet – an odd bunch, but the ones God gave me. I want my guy (when committed) at home, not out with the guys – don’t really drink (1/mo maybe). Don’t really like sports but not totally against them. Can’t say I’m super jealous, but don’t want any other women in your life unless related. : ) Every man I’ve dated (not that many) still talk to others about how much they miss me.
A fact: My daughter (3) is my world and that is primary to all else. Anyone in my life has to be understanding of that fact.
So, do you think there’s hope? LOL. .. Again, NOT looking to meet a man online, just a general question.
2007-06-30 17:26:51 · update #1
Oh, and I tend to be a bit wordy :)
I'm asking because I only dated guys I knew from my small town and not that many.. then got married at 23, stayed married for 7 years, and feel like a fish out of water in the dating scene after divorce.
2007-06-30 17:28:14 · update #2
wow - LOL.. yes that too.. funny, after I posted, I said, oh, I should say I'm into beaches and water... of any kind, ocean, lakes, streams, rivers.. even canoes.. giggle.
2007-06-30 17:35:47 · update #3
Nice sounding package, but you typed too much for a simple question. I can't imagine anyone you end up with ever getting a word into a conversation.
2007-06-30 17:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by surveillance_guy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You sound like a great person. There are 2 things that would be red flags for me personally. The first is about going to Native American events. My dad took me to a couple as a kid, and I was bored to tears, so you'll want to make sure that's something they'd be into since that's an important part of your life. Also, the part about wanting your future guy to stay home and not go out with the guys. I think it's very important that you and he spend most of your time together, but also that you both need time with friends. I think on that point you should try to be more flexible. Other than that, good luck!
2007-06-30 19:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dave S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To cut a long story short, you are an attractive single mother, independent 30 yr old. You did mention but not emphasize that you were native American.
You sounded energetic and optimistic about life. I would think a man in the white collar profession (teachers, accountants, dentists) age up to 40 would be interested in you although it would depend on your education level. People of these professions (I did rule out doctors and lawyers) are reliable, mature and responsible and I believe that's what you need even though you might find them a little dull. That would be my recommendation if you are looking for stability and maturity, not wild rides outside of the bedroom.
2007-06-30 17:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"don’t want any other women in your life unless related" For me, this is not negotiable. I'm not going to cheat or anything like that, but I do have friends that are very important to me, and nothing (not even God) could make me give them up. Other than this, I would have no problem with the divorce or any of the other things.
2016-05-19 23:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you sound like you would be fun and if you put forth effort in everything you do, I think any guy would be very interested. Be up front when you start dating about having a child. Guys do not like suprises like that. Good luck, by the way no walking on the beach?
2007-06-30 17:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by wow one 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you are quite desireable for a man seeking a great family life. Exercise patience in finding Mr. Right. You are seeking the perfect fit, not a quick emotional fix.
2007-06-30 17:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tex 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes, you have a chance. You say you're great in bed. Meet a man you want to be with, sleep with him, and he'll come back for more
2007-06-30 17:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron V 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you a real person or am i just reading this wrong? the answer is yes ..yes...yes... did ya hear me? why wouldn't some guy want someone like you?unless they don't know a good thing when they see it.
2007-06-30 17:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by bobby wwhatever 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
With all that talking a man would get tired of that quickly.. good luck
2007-06-30 18:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh stop. This isn't a dating site or personals column.
You're not full of yourself are you?!
2007-06-30 20:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by D 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋