i cant satisfy her and she tells me to **** her clit but i cant find it some1 plz help me save my marriage
2007-06-30 17:20:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The clitoris is located at the top of the vagina, inside the outer labial flaps, under a little fleshy hood unless it's already been stimulated enough and is large enough to protrude on its own.
2007-06-30 17:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by doppler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The clitoris is located toward the front. When aroused it will become enlarged so you will know if you find the right spot.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris
for a diagram
Best suggestion... ask her to masturbate with you and pay attention to what she does to herself.
If she doesn't know how to get herself off then you are probably out of luck. Orgasm for women is not the same as for men. It can take a lot of practice before someone gets there.
Truth is, if a woman knows how to please herself and is comfortable with her own sexuality, she should have no trouble getting off even if the guy is completely clueless.
Don't beat yourself up too much about this. A lot of women don't even know how to achieve orgasm, a lot of men never bother to learn enough about a woman's body to help her.
Go get yourself a couple of books, I know it may seem cheesy or embarrassing but their is no substitute for real knowledge. If you get embarrassed while paying for the books, make a crack about how they are for your friend's bachelor party gag gifts.
Best thing for it is simply practice.
In the wiki picture below the diagram, go for the hood and transfer back and forth between the glans.
Pay attention to her while you are doing this. Changes in breathing can be a great clue to finding something that works. Make sure you encourage her to give you direction. Lots of women are just dying to say "do that some more" or move to the left, a little higher, etc." but are too afraid their man wil view it as criticism.
I highly encourage mutual masturbation sessions as these will help build comfort levels and can be a great indicator of what really works for your partner.
2007-06-30 17:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by sage 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The CLITORIS is an organ above the opening of a female's vagina and above the opening of the urethra. It is located where the folds of flesh come to a point in the upper/top/front/ part of a female's pubic area, between the labia. It is a very small, sensitive bump, about the size of a pea. It feels good when it is rubbed or touched.
hopefully this will help.....
2007-06-30 17:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by kickrocksbitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it is CLITORIS and that is probably why you can not find it. If you were to part a woman's labia (pussy lips) it would be staring you right in the face. How old are you and how long have you been married/
2007-06-30 17:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by moe_moe666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go into Yahoo Search with the word "clitoris" . The first entry you get in response will tell you all you need to know - and you really have a lot of learning to do. Good luck.
2007-06-30 17:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by doshiealan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start at her belly button and run your finger straight down, it will be the first thing you hit after the hair (assuming she doesn't shave all the way) Good luck, you'll know when you get there....send us a post card!!!
2007-06-30 17:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a shame that we don't come with instructions. However that said it is as follows. 2nd star to the right and straight on til morning. Well not really but everyone else it giving you bad answers. Most of them women.
Anyway here it goes. Above the vaginal opening just above the urethra is a sort of knob thingie. That's it. Rub, don't mash, gentle but firm, makes her squirm. :)
And go here for the instructions. http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.lemonrose.co.za/h/education/0501/i/282315_female_reproductive_.gif&imgrefurl=http://www.lemonrose.co.za/h/education/0501/282315.htm&h=400&w=450&sz=22&hl=en&start=17&um=1&tbnid=OVlVmtsugjo21M:&tbnh=113&tbnw=127&prev=/images%3Fq%3Ddiagram%2Bof%2Bfemale%2Bsex%2Borgans%26svnum%3D10%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26safe%3Doff%26client%3Dfirefox-a%26rls%3Dorg.mozilla:en-US:official%26hs%3Dqsq%26sa%3DG
2007-06-30 17:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by bigmatlem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's behind the left ear
2007-06-30 17:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's got a hood on it, it's in the very front! Good luck!
2007-06-30 17:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by mzl0005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to show you. Obviously she knows where it's at. You're married to her, it shouldn't be a difficult thing to talk to her about.
2007-06-30 17:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Digital Haruspex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋