I had best friends but i could feel like we were drifing apart and that they jus didn't "like" me anymore. Now i am positive because they have begun to hang out with eachother and not invite me. its summer now so having no friends is bearable but i stil have 2 more years of school then im off to college with a fresh start but i dont want to go through my last two years of high school alone. the people in my school are not the kind that i would want to be best friends with but seeing that all my other friends have ditched me, i dont know what to do. i spend some of my nights crying and wondering why and what i had done wrong. please if anyone can give me advice or has this issue too.
2007-06-30 16:26:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when i say that most of the people in my school are not the kind i want to hang out with...i dont mean like simple stuff...i mean like, they are all into drugs or drinking all the time or are complete sluts, no offense. you don't know my town.
2007-07-02 19:57:34 · update #1
well you should ask them why they just randomly stopped talking to you. then maybe you can sit and talk to them, and if they tell you something stupid its time to find some TRUE friends. i know its hard youll get thru it and if ever need to talk to someone im here. NOO im not a weirdo or anything. goodluck
2007-06-30 16:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by missaizarockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We get what we give. You say that "the people in my school are not the kind that I would want to be best friends with." Sounds like your so-called "friends" may have felt the same about you. Now is as good a time as any to start learning what true friendship really is. It isn't hanging out with a certain crowd, or dressing a certain way, or how much money one has, or any of that. Reach out to people and they will reach back to you. Be a friend to others, a true and loyal friend, and you'll find the people who are worth being friends with. And you might be surprised where you'll find them.
2007-06-30 16:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all calm down. Ppl are like that. I've learned that most frnds don't last forever and I'm finally ok w it. Just remember smtng ''there are more ppl out there''.
You're ''friends'' aren't the only interesting and ''nice'' ppl that exist.
So maybe you could call them (to see if you could get closer to them) and ask them to hang out w you.
If they don't change, you can make new friends when you go back to school.
I'm sure there's at least one nice person in your class who's best friend material and who would accept you and treat you as a friend if you open up to him or her
So no, you don't have to spend your 2 yrs of highschool alone. I'm sure you'll be fine. Just remember ''there are other ppl out there''.
Anyways.. you can contact me if you want ( :
2007-06-30 16:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true, how in high school people are trying to figure out where to belong, its sad they forget the people that have been there for them. one thing i would suggest is to try to become part of any high school clubs, anything that interest you go for it.
Also its not always a bad thing to not have friends, sometimes what life is trying to tell us, that we need to figure ourselves out. If you dont, start to write you feeling on a journal.
I know theres a few friends that might feel that same, you will never know until you ask.
Dont feel lonely, the best person to be with in life.. its to be with yourself...
2007-06-30 16:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by liveforu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat of water. I'm getting rid, though, of about a handful-or-so of my friends, who're borderline, no... TOTALLY funatical, and religious. I feel like I've been taken advantage of, and I've taken advantage of them, as well, in certain ways, both sentimentally, and financially. I am changing a lot about myself emotionally, and stabily, and I am hanging around people now, who're more real and honest with me, therefore, I am becoming more 'real' and 'honest,' in the process. I thank God for this evolution in my heart/mind, and my relationship with Him is getting stronger because of this drastic, much, MUCH-needed change and adjustment. I am also loving myself more, and becoming more comfortable in who I am. So, my advice? Welcome this change in your life. Get new, more honest, and true friends, and see what advantures come your way in the wonderful future! T/c, and God bless, and also know, that you didn't necessarily do anything wrong, unless you plotted something malicious just to hurt/spite/intimidate them. You prolly are just changing things about yourself, and they've failed to welcome that beautiful reincarnation, so-to-speak.
God speed.
2007-06-30 20:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first to make sure call one and say hey do u want to hamg out...if they say noo...then just ;look for other peopel that is the excact ssmame thing that happened to me last year ...io promis itll get better
2007-06-30 16:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should make some new friends, hang out with them and see what your friends do.
2007-06-30 16:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's o.k. don't feel bad
2007-06-30 17:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jonathan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋