If you could give 3 of your best qualities to your "worst enemy" Which would you give and Why?

Question

* "worst enemy" - the person who crawls under your skin the most.

NB: You wont lose anything, you will still have plenty for yourself.

So that they would have those qualities to share with the rest of the world and YOU!

Answer 1

PERCEPTION

for it gives insight
and introduces a
different dimension
through which to view and understand
emotions and feelings

HUMBLENESS

for it brings lack of egoism and
because through being humble one can sense
the importance of being able to forgive especially his enemies

ALTRUISM

for it is like
tearing a part of your heart and passing it on
as a paradigm of love


bE wELL aLWAYs :-)
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Answer 2

the '4' best qualities i would give to my 'worst enemy' is forgiveness, respect, humour and a kind heart. just bcuz i 'give' it to them, it doesn't mean that i would lose them :D more like share them :D

-forgiveness- bcuz by EXPERIENCING forgiveness, my 'worst enemy' would feel that they ARE capable of this and will change themselves.

-respect -bcuz no matter who they hate or dislike, they should have respect for wat the person has achieved bcuz they would feel the same if they had achieved that as well. this opens up ur mind to the immovable truth, that U ARE OR CAN BE THE SAME AS THEM!! :D

-humour- this is important bcuz if someone is able to make ppl laugh, u lighten their lives up. u provide happiness to those that are dpressed or hurt and in turn, they know they can rely on u for cheering up :). also, u don't AIM to make ppl laugh, if u just NATURALLY do it, u feel more proud, more..happier with urself :) and generally, if u can make ppl laugh means that u must be quite a laidback and nice person anywayz.

-a kind heart- this encompasses all these qualities and much more.

btw, the 'worst enemy' i think is urself.

Answer 3

I'm not so sure I'd want to share them with my worst enemy. Why should I share my best qualities with someone who doesn't even like me?
Hmm, I guess forgiveness is not one of my qualities.

Answer 4

I have no worst ennemy, but I have a virtual friend who while pretending he is all love and so on, is very waspish, I am afraid.
I would give him a bit of what I try to do all the time:
not to think I am so very important.
As I see us as drops in an ocean.
And I think I would tell him too that humor is very difficult to be understood because of the difference of cultures and backgrounds and so on and to reflect on this.
If you want to have friends from all the world, try to accept they are different.
And it is all I can find.
I am not even pretending those are qualities.
They are more points of view I value..

Answer 5

I'm very lucky, I don't seem to have any enemy's, much less a worst one. I've been blessed with great people in my life. I don't waste energy on people who don't seem to like me and for some reason they are far and few between. However, if I gave it would be, kindness, compassion and courtesy. Blessings on you.

Answer 6

I have no enemies except the ones I make up in my own mind.

I'm sure anyone I perceive as my enemy at that moment already has any characteristics I could give them...whether I possess them or not. They're my "enemy" because of my temporary and personal perception of them at that moment in time. That personal perception is probably a mirror image of something within me I should take a look at as well.

What I practice when I have a situation like that is to play what's called the name game. Sounds cheesy, but it works like magic because it gets me past my own ego regarding myself and that other person's personality conflict and lends a fresh energy to our relationship. It changes the negative dynamic overnight usually.

Anyway, here's the name game:
Take that person's name~we'll say George W. Bush (haha), and assign positive words and qualities to each letter in their name.

G~Genuine
E~Eloquent
O~Opulence
R~Riveting
G~Glowing
E~Energetic

W~Wonderful

B~Beloved
U~Unbelievably Good
S~Smart
H~Happy

The idea isn't to give that person those qualities, but to recognize them in that person already. It changes my idea of that person, which changes my energy towards them, which changes the energy of the whole relationship.

Answer 7

People rarely bother me, I try not to allow them the power over me to affect my feelings or actions.

There is only one I'd like to share and I don't know if it is my best quality since it seems to annoy a lot of people. It is the one I'd most like for others to have. That is my willingness and ability to allow others to be who and what they are without my trying to influence or force them to be what I think they should be. To live and let live or to accept.

Answer 8

I have no enemies and can not think of a single person who irritates me enough to consider them as such. This is probably because I have much of these qualities:

P atience
E mpathy
A miability
C ompassion
E ndurance

I wish to give all 5 of these qualities generously to anyone who might consider themselves my enemy. Anyone else who wishes to not have so many enemies is welcome to have these qualities as well (since I have the power to give them, why not?). Enjoy!

Answer 9

I would give her:
kindness - so she would be nice to everyone and stop being my enemy.
gratitude - so she would be grateful for me giving her these qualities
and....
sympathy - so she could say sorry and take back everything she has ever said.
But more than anything I would give her a heart, so she would never backstab anyone else!

Answer 10

Tolerance, Perspective and Compassion I think would render the world without enemies. (not even remotely suggesting MY tolerance, perspective, and compassion would be enough to change the world.) This would be a nice place to start.