So... my wife wants to feel more like the female in our relationship (ahha.. makes me sound pathetic).. but shes doesnt give me the opprotunity to be the man.. and this one bothered me .. pretty bad last night.. we had sex.. really good sex.. then when we were done.. she basically rolled over and fell asleep on me.. basically acting like "a guy".. is there something wrong with my feeling unloved when she does that? its actions like that that make it so i cant act like the man.. can anyone relate?
2007-06-30 12:25:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh Darling! YOU did your job! She is SO pleased with your love making that she just snuggles up and go to sleep!
You are the man!
My hubby does the same thing! He fires me up, burns me out and then we snuggle up and go to sleep.
There is nothing better than being satisfied and then falling asleep in your honeys arms!
Don't think it is against you, because she is complimenting you by going to sleep completely drained of her energy...
Oh, I like it like that!
BLESSINGS
2007-06-30 12:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude don't worry about her falling alseep....you just tired her out and made her happy, tired and comfortable. However you sound like your relationship makes you feel somewhat de-masculated.
Dude if you are married, and this is an issue, you gotta tell her how you feel, and discuss options and solutions. If this is one of the worse things that you experience, you are truly blessed.
However, I know from experience, it is uncomfortable to discuss. The point is however, that unless you can figure common ground, and find a place where you can feel the masculinity you occasionally need, there will be problems. the longer you feel unmasculin, browbeaten and dominated (unless that is your thing), the more resentful, hurt and angry you will become. Don't let this spill out to the rest of your life and relationship. Nip it in the bud now!
2007-06-30 12:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by someguy_in_halifax 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should feel proud! If she went right to sleep, that means that you did your job well. Women only want to stay up and chat after sex if their man left them unsatisfied, and they are hoping for some more. But if you did your part well, she should go to sleep, just like anyone else. Really, don't worry about it.
2007-06-30 12:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a women feels tired after sex and passes out afterwards - good job - pat yourself on the back! If she jumps out of bed and starts cleaning - then be concerned.
2007-06-30 13:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly Joel, a lot of times that happens because women are tired. I don't think you should feel unloved. I do that all the time because of the time of day that we have sex.
2007-06-30 13:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by tink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snuggle her and call her "My snuggly ball of sex passion". Something like that. Sex can bring out the cuddlyness in a woman if she's treated the right way afterwards!
2007-06-30 12:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has been doing that for over 27 years i just got use to it. To tell you the truth it never did bother me anyway because of what we just did shows me how much he loves me and you should feel the same. Have you ever thought that you get her so tired she hadn't any strength left after making love to you.You should pat yourself on the back for pooping her out.
2007-06-30 12:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she fell asleep she must have been very contented. talk to her about it, what is it you want her to do after sex? talk or cuddle? communite with her...how else is she supposed to know. women arent mind readers either so to have a good relationship you have to keep those lines of communication open. what is it you want to do AFTER sex to make u feel like a man. your partner falling asleep after sex can be a compliment to you in itself.sounds like one happy woman to me but do talk with her about it anyway
2007-06-30 12:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by pennylane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u want to do? Cry and ask if she still respects you?
Next time, beat her to it by making snoring noises before you even finish.
2007-06-30 12:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You help your wife sleep well at night? YOU ARE DA MAN!!!!
2007-06-30 12:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by bubblelator 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋